Any one please help me with my marriage? ?

Question

Ok I could of done some thing some guys would give me **** for and i understand, i got married at a young age right out of hs, and its to the first girl i well you know. Right now I'm getting in trouble cause I'm looking and wanting to be with other girls cause i never sowed my oats if you know what i mean. my question is should i ask my wife about us taking a little break so i could TRY and get it out of my system and so we don't divorce 20 30 years down the road cause of it? the way it would go is we can see any one we and and if we want to do it with that person we can, and if we want to we can tell each other bout it i would wrap my guy, and she would wrap her guys lil Buddy, is it a good idea? i love my wife and i dont want to lose her.

Answer 1

I think thats a good idea loving someone and having a life is different then having fun s*x its not a relationship talk to her and see how she feels

Answer 2

It's not necessarily the best idea, but who am I to say that?  I think that you'd be playing with fire.  You never know if she could like the open marriage so much...even though you would be ready to stop playing around.  Have you thought about using lots of fantasy to spice up your relationship?  Or go to a strip club with her?  I'd hate to see you get emotionally involved with another woman, which would be a sure way of losing your wife.

Answer 3

All this is not happening because you got married too young. this is happening because you keep lusting after other women. Maybe you have been going out to many times without your wife and you feel the freedom to do what ever you want and you like it. That's so wrong, You say you love your wife. I don't believe that. Are you getting what you need at home? And I'm not just asking about s*x there is so many other things that we women can do to keep our hubby's happy. Reflect on what you are saying. would you really be o.k if your wife would sleep with other men? I don't think so. if you say yes to this question, then you really don't love her enough all you want is to give your lust it's every desire.  

Answer 4

Looks like you were really too young to get married when you did.

but to be blunt, having done that, I think you need to just need to grow up and accept the commitment you made.  It seems like you love her enough, but are struggling with desire to be with other girls.

here's a fact of life.  You can't have both.

You better decide, and I sure hope you make the right decision of honoring your commitment of marriage, considering it seems that she has not committed adultery against you or anything like that.

also, you'll never 'get it out of your system'.  rather, sleeping around now will just make you want to sleep around more later.  what makes you think it'll just stop after a certain period?  you'll have more experiences to wonder about, and you'll wonder who else is out there, etc.

just do the right thing and don't go down the other path.  You'll just hurt your wife and hurt yourself and others down the line.

Answer 5

She will have the right to dump you if you stray.  

Answer 6

There is just the thing for you in this world and it is called a strip club. Go there and have a good time, just don't make it a habit.

Answer 7

You can't have your cake and eat it too, unless she is into swinging.  Good luck with that.  If you start dating other people, you will get divorced anyway.