I have been a mom now for 6 years. Every mother's day I find that I am sad. I seem to spend the time leading up to the day thinking about the sadness that my children's birth parent's may be feeling on that day. I also know that I am not my children's first mother, never have been never will be. I fully acknowledge that I share this day with 2 of the most wonderful women who made me a mom. I know that I am "mom", and I am happy beyond words, but I really struggle with being sad for our birthmothers. I am sad that they are not part of their childs daily life. I am sad for my children that they are missing out knowing them (although we have open adoptions we do not get much feedback). Am I alone in this?
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