Any tips on making out with someone?

Question

I've been dating my "boyfriend" for 2 weeks now. We first met about a year ago and became fast friends. I've never made out with a boy before, I'd always get too nervous and make an excuse not to, but now... I know that I want to. I know that he's made out with people before because during our friendship he'd talk about making out - not in a creepy way, just in a conversation way. We used to talk about everything. I guess we still do, I just don't want to about this one thing. People say it comes naturally but I'm still sort of afraid. Help?

Answer 1

just try; when i first did it happend and the guy said i was a good kisser.

haha.

yeah but anyways.

either that or tell him you never have and your nervous.

if he really likes you he will understand.

++pratice makes perfect(:

Answer 2

First off, if you guys talk about everything and he knows you haven't made out then seriously just ask him about it, I'm sure it will make him smile knowing that you want him to be your first REAL makeout.

And as for tips don't make it akward, make sure you two can laugh and be playful.

And don't be slobbery or sloppy, not hot.  

Answer 3

Put your tongue in his mouth.

Answer 4

i was really nervous for my first time also and i was like "i cant do this!"

it was spin the bottle so i wasnt as close with the person as you seem to be but it really comes natural you just feel where his tongue is and move in corelation with that and you just move around make sure you are doing something with your hands so you dont lose balance or anything leaving into him

rub his legs run your fingers through his hair you dont sound ready for a hand job lol but just go with the flow

and he will lead you since he is experienced

good luck! and have a good time

Answer 5

Stick your tongue in his throat.  

Answer 6

Take it easy.

Start slow. Few things in the world quite so off-putting as someone trying to suck out your tonsils right off the starting line.

Anyone who claims that sticking your tongue down someones throat is romantic is a pre-teen virgin whose knowledge of romance comes from sneaking looks at online p**n.

Nibbling, now, on the other hand is fun.

And fun is the overall goal here.

Decide before starting how far you want to go with it. nothing more annoying than trying to decide whether or not this is the right time to get inside a bra while distracted with where the tongues are.

Answer 7

Dont think about it. Just enjoy his company. And when the moment is right you'll know it. You just will. Dont do it if you feel uncomfortable

Answer 8

Well, here are some examples of making out: hugging, french kissing, heavy petting, and all the other stuff.  Please be careful, though, because making out in public is considered to be Public Display of Affection (PDA) and you can get in trouble for it.

Answer 9

do it naturally

Answer 10

with your toung say your abcs silently

Answer 11

Don't worry. I'm still a lip virgin also. I'm nervous because I know the guy that likes me wants to kiss me. I have heard it comes naturally. Just try it, it probably will. And if it doesn't your boyfriend probably won't say "DANG GIRL, YOU SUCK AT KISSIN, IT'S OVER CHICA!" he will just kiss you more for practice. maybe he likes freakish kissing ways.  

Answer 12

Just do what everyone else has said to do.... don't be afraid. Youlll get the hang of it!

Just put your tongue in his mouth and like said in previous answer, say abcs quietly, hopefully he'll think your a natural. It happened to me too. I just

kinda moved my tongue around his and he said i was a natural:P

Good luck!:)  and have fun lol

Answer 13

im gonna have to go with the guy that said say your abc's silently

Answer 14

well. it does come naturally. you have to follow along with him. usually when you kiss you start off mouth closed. then it gradually becomes mouth open wiht tongue. and when you use your tongue, you slide it on his and just touch or w.e. follow his lead. i doubt you guys will be making out forever.

good luck and practice!

Answer 15

Dont worry! It's natural! But if he kisses you first it will be even more natural!

Answer 16

It does come naturally, and there's not a whole lot we can tell you. Make sure you have fresh breath and relax...it'll be easier than you realize!

If you're having trouble with your nerves, tell him you're a bit nervous and ask him to take the lead. Then try to mimic exactly what he does.

Answer 17

If you think about it too much you won't enjoy it, just go with the flow, I'm not going to offer tips, everyone likes it differently ;-)

Answer 18

OMG! That is the best advice!

Its true saying your abc's slightly makes it even better!!

Also just loosen up!

If you feel you REALLY REALLY REALLY!!!! Cant do it than tell your boyfriend.

You could practice on the back of your hand and see what feels right,and what doesnt!

Good Luck!

XoXo

Vanessa  

Answer 19

be good at it