Any wives that ever invited a threesome into there bedroom? How did it turn out?

Question

Just curious. You know how the saying goes that "the grass is always looks greener on the other side", but then you cross the road and whoops a daisy, it looks like the same old grass...lol. So, I want to know was it all that you thought it would be, more or less.

Answer 1

Inviting others into the marital bed with my first husband eventually lead to the demise of our marriage....ENUFF SAID!....

Answer 2

I know that the people who have had threesome's have had bad outcomes. I can't think of any threesomes that had a positive outcome from the people that I know that went through with it. I can see how the fantasy could be exciting and they look like fun on porno's but in reality emotions get involved * for most people anyway* and unless you are in a threesome with total strangers I don't see how it could not have consequences. I wouldnt' want my husband watching some woman go down on me, that wouldn't be cool. We have a good sexual relationship, if it aint broke don't fix it!  

Answer 3

We have had a few with no problems and are still married. Key is communication and a stable relationship.

Answer 4

hiya!

for my husband and i, it was a wonderful experience which lead to several more... we have active in the swinging lifestyle for several years and it has added more to our relationship than we first anticipated. we love, but it is important to be very open and honest. communication is key!

hope this helps!

dawn

Answer 5

Excuse me that's adultery!!

Answer 6

Disaster waiting to happen.. what if your husband asked for it again? personally it made me feel inadequate, when he asked for it again. it was supposed to just be for fun and I never felt the same way about him. i started to regret the whole thing  

Answer 7

No way, but I know someone who did and they ended up divorcing later. They did it to "spice up" their marriage because the woman wasn't satisfied since the husband was a lousy lay & the husband wasn't getting enough from the wife b/c she never wanted to do it...because he was a lousy lay.

All it did was show them both that neither of them has any obvious respect for the other. It was pretty sad & it was brought up in the divorce hearing.  

Answer 8

I had a former friend who had a threesome and her husband left her for the other women.

Answer 9

i have never had one but know people that have, and they have deeply regretted it...

so i wouldn't recommend it!

Answer 10

Well,  I know of a few married couples that have an open marriage and have been together for 17 yrs. now!   I have ask them how they do it and they told me you have to  be very open and honest and trust each other.  Plus, they said that having s*x with someone esle is just s*x and when it is with there spouse it is love!   They said that they have rules like no kissing, and a sign when not liking it.   It is not for everyone!  Yes, it can break up couples.

Answer 11

Proceed with caution.  I have considered it and went to swinger sites to get info.

You have to communicate with your partner, set up rules, express honest feelings, be open with the 3rd party.

I wouldn't use a friend if it can be helped.

Research it and you will discover if this is for you or not.

Good luck.

Answer 12

I'm not a wife obviously, but have been involved in a couple of them WITH my wife,both kinds of 3..(Fair is fair) Would we do it again? You bet, IF the right people were involved.That's the secret,you have to have the right people and a lot of trust for each other, or it will never work.

And most of the people judging you probably are quite shallow and get jealous if their mate even LOOKS at someone else because of their insecurities :)

Answer 13

we did... and won't do it again...

it was just between me and the girl and my hubby just watched but it can turn ugly in a short time.

the other girl turns psycho, wants more becomes obsessed... etc.

it can be detrimental in a lot of ways..

so if you must do it, proceed with caution.

Answer 14

we wouldn't do that.

Answer 15

I'm not a wife but I do know people that have done that. They and I would tell you not to do it.

Answer 16

No and i think instead of both husband and wife exerting all that energy into a 3rd person - why not use it towards eachother?  True love = true respect.  How "honest" can you really be with your spouse by giving eachother's bodies to other people?  You're not being honest to the vows the TWO of you took!

It defeats the purpose of getting married and committing.

Answer 17

Very nasty thing to do