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I have a 15 year old who likes to flirt with danger. Two years ago he would jump off the roof of the house and land on some mattresses. A couple of friends did this with him. He did this when I was at work but word got back to me on what was going on. Naturally I forbid him to continue this and he did. Honestly, I think he stopped because it was getting "old". That was my gut feeling. I gave him a bunch of chores to do as a consequence but my suspicion is that he still has those risk-taking tendencies.Here we are 2 years later and I find out that he was at a lake jumping off high cliffs. We're talking 40 feet high cliffs. I haven't decided on a consequence just yet (I just found out tonight) but my husband and I have our own conflict over this issue. He sees him as a kid who is going to put himself in the hospital but I think that he knows where his limits are. He'll flirt with danger but he assesses the situations he puts himself in. That's why he never hets hurt even though jumping off high cliffs into a lake sounds pretty dangerous. I could see him being a stuntman in his future. Am I out of touch with reality to think that he knows where his limits are even those his behaviors are risky?? Of course I don't tell my son any of this but my husband thinks I'm nuts if I think he knows where his own limits are? What are your thoughts on this?
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