Anybody ever feel disliked for being yourself?

Question

I feel like people dislike me for being myself. I text freinds no replys then they say hi to me through other friends. Im totally myself. why dont people want to hangout with me? I feel like an outcast. Im totally there to be a friend. I help my freinds no matter what they need help with. example: driving them home after parties, changing their oil, fixing their cars. in all this Im not making friends. this sucks.

Answer 1

I feel like that too!!use to at least, then i start being more open to people and met more true friends!! becuz those friends of yours arent your true friends sweetie

dont even worry bout that you will meet new people

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Answer 2

I hear where your coming from

Some people don't like me either for being myself . But, really, I stopped caring a long time ago.

It's not what everybody thinks of you, it's mainly what you think of yourself. If they don't like you for who you are then they aren't real friends.

Answer 3

I learned this the hard way but yes. I can't begin to tell you how much of an outcast I was until I wasn't "myself". It sounds like your "friends" are using you and maybe you want to be their friend a little too much.

(I was like that too, don't feel bad.) So start acting like other people for a while, like I did. Then its weird after like three months you fit your your true self with the "fake you" if that makes any sense. Then once your more normal you will make friends. Also, I have a cousin and I that act like our true selves to eachother but not to anyone else to get be like yourself once in a while. Try to find someone where you can be yourself with completely. Also, you could be trying to be friends with the popular people and maybe your a nerd (no offense at all, I don't care about this stuff at all but others do) and they don't like you for your reputation.

Answer 4

In my school i was known as the primaboy. since i was the only male singer/dancer/actor. I didnt care what anybody said and i'm having a blast, its fun. so yes i did feel disliked for being myself but so what? Find new friends or be a lonewolf.  

Answer 5

Find new friends. Those that can accept you for you. Those people can't be your real friends if they have you feeling that way.

Answer 6

I would think being yourself is a very good thing and many people would respect that and should respect that....however it sounds like you are just lacking in the confidence department....it is fine to help people SOMETIMES...but do not be a doormat for people and they will respect you more.PEACEOUT & GODSPEED