Anyone else got a mom like this?

Question

me and my husband are having problems with cps. were doing everything they ask.

we have 3 kids

my mom called me today i'm gonna have too leave him.

any one else got a mom who hates ur other

Answer 1

well of course your mom is going to always side with you. i would not say to leave your husband if he is not doing anything wrong. but if he is the reason cps is after you. then for the safety of your kids leave.

Answer 2

why would your mom tell you to leave your husband

if shes not the one married to him then she shouldnt care

so much. as long as your happy and he isnt physically or

emotinally hurting you.

Answer 3

Why is CPS involved? I don't think I understand your situation.

Answer 4

Everybody and everything in today's world seems to have a vested interest in breaking marriages up and grabbing everybody's kids to give to somebody else to raise.

It depends on what your husband did whether your mother is right or not. Everything in a CPS case can get messy really fast; I know that. I almost got thrown out of my house, and I never did anything wrong. if he did anything really bad they might be justified, but I have found out that sometimes they nit-pick.

If you can't get a good, trustworthy attorney, here is a website that may be of some help to you:    http://www.fightcps.com

It might not get you an attorney, but it can give some ideas about how to defend yourself in your case.

Answer 5

He causing the cps to come to ur house? Maybe that's the reason she feels that way.

Answer 6

If you are leaving him for your own reasons or for the safety of your children, then kudos. If you are leaving him because of your mother- boo. My husband's mother hates me, and the feeling is mutual- he would never, ever question us based on her opinion.

Answer 7

honey, its your choice to be married to him. NOT HERS! if you love him stay married. Tell her i love him and he loves me and its my marriage and i can choose whether you like it or not. If you love him enough work things out. sorry to act so forceful but i hate when things happens like this. because i beleive your parents should be happy for you. i feel for you. good luck

but if your leaving him for your kids or your protection you go honey! BUT IF YOUR LEAVING HIM FOR YOUR MOM! RE THINK THAT.

Answer 8

Do you hate your husband? If you can work through whatever problems you have, I think you should give it a try. Your mother's opinion doesn't matter here, it's your marriage.

Answer 9

Your mom wants you to leave your husband why?

Answer 10

...ur an idiot if u leave ur husband bc ur dumb mom says so...u should respect ur hubby and tell ur mom that u will X all ties to her unless she stops talking bad like that.