Anyone else have a problem with this?

Question

I am sixteen years old. Everyone seems to have known that im g*y for my whole life. h**l i knew since i was six. Im friends with only girls and i mean every single one of them has a crush on me and constantly wont stop asking me out. I have said yes to one girl awhile back because it's hard for me to say no to people. But just tonight i finally said no to my best friend of 7 years and told her " Im g*y...it's time for everyone to finally just accept it." I feel so bad and sometimes guilty. Im a flirty person and outgoing and i guess i wonder if i made them think they had a shot. Im not sure but it's getting out of hand. Why can't all my girl friends just wanna be friends...will this ever end? And is there an easier way to say no? for some reason it's hard for me but im getting used to it..i just dont like the feeling of hurting others.

+Jared+

Answer 1

wait you said that everybody knew you were g*y for your whole life? and girls are still asking you out?? just tell them no, cause you are g*y.

Answer 2

Yeah thats a tough one cos what one girl might consider friendly might be considered flirting to another girl

Just keep being yourself and if they start looking at you like a b/f just make the odd comment about how hot/cute that guy is that walks past you (make it a game you can play when you go out)

Answer 3

Unfortunately, you will just have to learn how to say no, but in a nice and respectful way.  What you did was good.  Tell them you're g*y and make them back off.  You were respectful. =)

Sit down with all of them and tell them that you're g*y and you don't want to be continually asked out by them.  Tell them it makes you uncomfortable.  I'm sure they will understand.

And by the way....you're cute!!  Your avatar photo is you, right?  I can see why they ask you out!  I would, too! =)  

Answer 4

unfortunately there is not easier why out except for a simple no. if this doesn't work then you might consider letting them know whats up and that you just want to continue as friends

Answer 5

You can address your situation by telling your 'female' friends that you'd like to go out with them as a 'friend' but not as a boyfriend...that should do the trick.  There is no need to explain your personal private sexual orientation to anyone...  If they don't want to go out as 'friends' then it's on them, not you...

Answer 6

It won't stop unless you come out. You have to learn to say "No" to people that ask you out, or come out so everyone knows anyway.

Answer 7

No means no

so i guess there isn't an easier way.

you should be flattered that they ask you out.

just goes to show how attractive you are

(: