Anyone else have hookup problems?

Question

Very sad for me to ask this here, but I am a little on edge right now and I don't like talking to my friends about this type of stuff for some weird reason.

My question is, are you able to hookup with someone for a night, then never talk to them again and be okay with it? I have done this at my friends lake house more than once, and after I do a day or so later we go back home, and I never see them again. I feel like total **** knowing I will never be able to see them again and knowing that I actually did make a connection with them in one way or another. I feel totally depressed right now and am not even acting myself, really. Anyone else have this problem?

Answer 1

You know that this kind of promiscuous behavior has risks. The emotional toll it takes is the least of it, and it is kicking your f***y. Then there is the possibility of a baby (and paternity suit) popping up out of nowhere. Not to mention the possibility of STDs, particularly since you don't know where this other person has been.

Look, if you can't actually get to know the girl, develop a real relationship and exchange phone numbers and e-mail addresses, then don't bother with the hook-up.

I know that the mass media portrays the one-night stand as normal and fun, but it isn't right. We are not designed for that kind of behavior. We are intended to form relationships.

The people who go around mating indescriminately like animals have severe emotional and mental problems.