Anyone ever felt like this

Question

I could pretty much scream right now!!!! My son is 13 months old. I just took him with me to see a friend I have not seen in a while. We went to her house, And he acted soooooo bad!!! I was so embarrassed! I only got to stay for less than a hour. We could not even carry on a conversation. She pretty much sat there and watched me case after my son. Anyway I'm pregnant again. 16 weeks. And I'm scared that for now on I will never be able to do anything again. It seems bad enough with 1 child, what about when I get 2. My first pregnancy with my son was planned. But this pregnancy was a surprise for me. I really feel like Im not ready for another baby so soon. Has anyone else ever felt like this. ANY ADIVCE??

Answer 1

My sister has 3 kids that are all 9 months apart.  At first it will be hard, but they are not babies forever.  She wouldn't trade it for anything.  She says she is glad they she had her kids close in age.  Just stick in there, it will turn out!

Answer 2

Your 13 months old wanted your attention next time you should invite her over to your house because he will feel more comfortable being able to play with his toys and knowing the turf. Having 2 isn't really that hard (I am pregnant with #3 and I was told that will be a challenged) but you got to realize they don't know better and they need to be guided into acting in the best manner possible, well i got to go 18 month old is going to wake up daddy we do opposite shifts.