Anyone help me please [PARTY/TODAY]?

Question

okay so TODAY i went to a party at this cool place with lots of people and i came home recently and I'm so depressed. i just feel so out of touch.there was a guy there who i like so much and actually talked to him for a little while today and i was so happy after that but then i went back to be with my friends and now all i can think about is him;and i prob.wont see him for 2 or more months&i'm totally wishing i talked to him longer.i didn't like how my dress looked.everything just went straight downhill.i did have a few good moments but i don't no.and there was other guys there who i wanted to talk to but i felt so conscience in my dress cause it looked horrible(from my perspective).so i didn't say anything to them.does anyone have any advice to get my mind off things or just help me.my mind is going in a hundred directions and i cant stop thinking about it. thanks so much[=

FOR STARTERS-I THREW OUT THE DRESS;SO THAT WAS GOOD[=

AND SORRY I HAD NO IDEA WHAT CATERGORY TO PUT THIS UNDER !!

Answer 1

You can't change the past so, deal with it...What is your favorite thing to do? Go do it, call friends just keep your mind off of it. Next time there's a party, call your most honest friend and ask if you guys can go shopping together or if she'll come over and help pick out an outfit, or you can talk to your mom, an aunt or a sister. I'm sure the dress didn't look as bad as you think it did, and I'm sure everyone will forget about the whole party in a week or two.

Answer 2

Okay, take a deep breath and breathe. It seems you are panicking over nothing.

Are your clothes clean? Do they match? If so then quit worrying too much. Just take care of yourself.

Your problem is more that you don't have confidence in yourself. You must see yourself as the special person you are. God created you unique and special for a reason.

Just believe in yourself, God believes in you.

Be yourself, and if it is meant to be it will happen. Just don't stress out.

Guys aren't attracted to stress, they want confidence.

I pray your eyes will be opened to the beauty inside of you, so it can shine through. May God give you peace and joy. Shalom Aleichem.