Anyone here ever had a Bad Relationship?

Question

Have any of you People here wasted Like 3 years to 4 years of your life", with a Partner that wasnt the One for you, but you thought they were, and also u suspected they cheated on you, and they denied it, but you still suspected it, anyone has anyone here ever wasted 3 years of their life on a bad Relationship"

Answer 1

Hi! Daniel,

What kind of cheating?

Are you sure that your partner cheated you?

Coz no one can tolerate a bad relationship for such a long period. You have tolerated it. Are you a "Great Saint"?

There might be some misunderstanding. Both of you are an adult. You should talk to your partner about the matter clearly without losing your temper. Explore the truth. Don't label your relationship as "bad". Coz sometimes the truth is different than what we see.

You were married to your partner. I guess!!

Was that marriage imposed on you?

If no, then your love might not be such that will cause your partner to change for you. Give more & more love to your partner. Love changes a beast into angel.

For a relationship to be bad not only your partner but you are also responsible. Husband-wife relationship can't be bad. It is "sacred".

If you want then you can tell me the situation in detail. My id is [e-mail]

Love your partner as much as you can. You will come to know the power of love.

Bye,

Take care.

Answer 2

Unfortunately people and relationships change.  Dont feel as though you "wasted" this time, instead choke up the learning experience and move forward.  Its important that you not allow this situation to hold you back from moving on and being happy.  I would recommend some type of spiritual guidance http://www.witchescorner.com

Best of luck to you dear!

Answer 3

Oh yes i wasted 3 yrs of my life with a stupid jerk. he cheated on me. went out to night clubs behind my back. etc etc. now i met another man and got a beautiful girl. but i hope im not wasting time again.it dsnt seem so but ull never know. got bitten once and dont trust 100% again!

Answer 4

NOOOOOOO!!!   I dont think this has ever happened to anyone in here.

Answer 5

i am sure everyone has been there at some point in their life. but u can't blame yourself, we all make mistakes and misjudge, and its hard to see the truth if u love someone, u just have to go on with life, and cut all ties with the person who hurt u.

Answer 6

5 long d**n years with my ex husband.  you name it, he did it, and we suffered for it.  my stupid a$$ put up with it though.  shoulda got out sooner.  oh well, lessen learned though.

Answer 7

i was with a guy for nearly 2 years and he was seeing my best friend behind my back for about a year of it.. wasn't happy when i found out.. but i eventually moved on when i realised how low they both were.

Answer 8

hey, your not robinson crusoe

Answer 9

I wasted 18 years of my life.   He wasn't the one for me and he cheated throughout the marriage.

I didn't find out until 2 years before I divorced him.

I met a great guy not less then a year after the divorce and have been happily married for 22 years now.

3 years is a long time !   But its time to forget and move on.  Don't give them another second of your life thinking or worrying about what was .  State thinking about what can and will be.  

Answer 10

Yeah, I did waste my more than two years with a loser.  I am not sure he cheated, but he was such a jerk, he made me pay for his mobile bill, buy groceries for his parents house, give him money when i go visit  him when leaving as he is apparently broke, bought food at his plale whenever i was visiting, paid for our entertainment and his friends'or relatives'who ever we are with.  I was just some kind of a cash express to him, I even contributed to his medical bills and he was earning double my salary.

I woke up on eday and I ken this was not the life I want for myself and to top it all he wanted to have a child with me so that I stay with him.  I left before i found myself in a situation where it was no longer just me and I was also not prepared to mother a man in his 30s.

Answer 11

I wasted 7 years of my life with someone who I love but doesn't love me back, doesn't want me sexually and generally makes me feel like dirt. I've suspected he has cheated on me in the past but he was never man enough to own up to it and I believed him.  

Answer 12

3 years?  I wish it was only 3.  Try 6 LONG years.  One thing I do have to thank him for-my ex has helped me really be able to truely appreciate my fiancee now and how great of a guy he is.    

Answer 13

No not yet