Anyone how could i improve myself?? (haha i know that sounds weird) ?

Question

I'm 5'0 and im kinda like 2-3 pounds over wieght, i look a little fat, and i have slight acne, not too much, I love to hang around with guys as friends and im shy, i cant talk to guys that arent my friends at all. But it seems like guys always like my friend who has alota hair (as in on her legs and hands, ect) but like shes really "delicate" like she just flails around. What could I do to stop blabbering and talk confidently? How could i look better? And be confident generally? How can i get more guys to like me more than a friend? (ones that arent nerds..no offence)

Answer 1

honestly i think confidence is about you. I know some ugly girls that get all the guys for two reasons. 1. either they are good in bed. lol 2. they are so confident!!! you have to be confident in yourself. see a dermatologist for your skin and just be confident. I dont talk to guys like that because i'm shy too, but i always get who i want. seriously because i am confident. not cocky...confident in that you are beautiful and important

Answer 2

I too, am 5'0 so i know how it feels want to loose weight, and if your shaped like me, its hard (i to, am about 3 pounds overweight) so for me eating healthier and walking/jogging for about 30 mintues on the treadmill helped me along with a 30 minute walk outside.

ummmm, acne i cant say ive got a huge problem with but just get a good cleanser and moisturizer and it should help.

Think more Confidently, its not going to help unless you feel confident about yourself first. (guys like confidence) but not to much. Just think of conversation, if you feel like ur blabbering think of somthing you saw on tv, or a cool car you saw, or whatever..... (most guys are out in space anyways haha)

To get a guy, really, i know it sounds silly but be patient. im 15 and got my first bf and hes wonderful. as i said guys like confidence. humor is always good and smile, but not over the top or youll look weird. :D umm. idk just be yourself.  

Answer 3

Lose weight I guess and clean your face.

Answer 4

Your friend has a lot of hair on her legs and hands?  Hands? that's a little sick.  Tell her to wax that

As for you, just lose weight.