Anyone still in love with an ex girlfriend?

Question

would you please contact me, so we can exchange the trauma caused by it? and maybe be of support to each other? would be nice...

Thanks,

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Answer 1

Hi Alison

I think your idea is a really positive one, however it is always a good idea to remember that there are many unscrupulous people out there who take advantage of others vulnerability.

My advise would be to discuss how you feel with 'appropriate' people you can trust.

I have been through things throughout my life that i am pretty sure would have had weaker minded people maybe commit suicide, or cause harm to others, however that's not really important, but what is important is what we learn from the worst of experiences and how we rise after we fall.

I am fast approaching 50, and i'm in no doubt that you are considerably younger, so whilst i am happy to support you, i would feel a little easier if you consulted your parents or your legal gaurdian prior to us speaking beyond an open forum.

What i will say in closing, is whilst i accept that i still love this individual, i also needed to accept that as with all things, that relationship had a beginning and an end, and i truly believe that 'acceptance' is like a aneasthetic when we truly embrace it.

But ultimately we are all individuals and hopefully find coping strategies that work for us as individuals.

Take care, and never forget that no matter how bad we feel, i'm confident that there is somebody somewhere feeling just a little worse than ourselves, and i often say to those close to me if we counted our blessings as frequently as we counted our money we would acknowledge how lucky we really are, even in the face of the most adverse.

GA  

Answer 2

I would like to say i am...i'm always thinking of her, she's on my mind everyday, not a day goes by when i don't reminisce about her. It's kind of pathetic but i wonder sometimes how come I can't get over her?

Answer 3

it's hard to stop loving some one out of the blue. it takes a while for love to die down. unless they have done something really really bad, then you may never stop loving them. believe me i know.

:-/

Answer 4

yes, haven't seen her for ages, though that's probably a good thing.

I luv u too, Alison x*x

Answer 5

I've been happily married for 16 years...

However, of course - I still love all of my ex-girlfriends!

Love doesn't die - it just changes!

EDIT - I love you too!

If only for the nice-ity of your question!

Answer 6

Im deeply in love with my ex so much , i feel like i cant do nothing without her and is in my mind everytime i think , I miss me being able to protect her from others and i miss her smile , she smile at me in a way i new she was there for me and now i feel depressed and sad , grades are slipping , i love her to much  :,(