My fiance (been engaged 18 months, together for 2 and 1/2 years) has been giving an opportunity to do a course that will mean him working away from home ( a 5hr drive) from monday to friday. It doesnt get any more money but he assures me it will provide him with better opportunitites in his work for the future and it will last for between 3-6months. Im delighted he has been given this opportunity but we have very different opinions on the matter. He sees this as a good thing to further his career, make more money to enable a better future for ourselves and save for our wedding. I on the other hand dont like the idea of being on my own night, I like someone looking after me. I feel it will be a massive strain on our relationship not seeing each other and when he does come home at weekends he will prob be tired with travelling and want to see his friends/family etc also leaving little time to ourselves. I dont think your job should disrupt you life like this. But i would never stop him from doing anything he wanted too. Also last year i found him txting another woman, he has admitted it was in a flirtatious mannor but he never cheated on me and i believe him and didnt end the relationship but im worried him working away, meeting new people, me not being there will be dangerous. I do trust him dont get me wrong, but he did betray my trust and its taken me time to build up fully trusting him again. i just think a situation like this is just asking for trouble?
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