Are Aquarians hard to get comfortable with?

Question

I'm not sure how else to word this question. I've been with my Aquarius boyfriend for about 5 months now, but we've unofficially been together for about 2 years. The time goes on and on but I feel like we still don't have any sort of connection because he just can't relax and open up. I know everything about him on a superficial level because I ask lots of questions, but I still feel like we don't know each other on that deep, relationship level. It's frustrating because I feel like that connection is most important, but we're never going to get there if he doesn't relax, stop stressing, open up a bit, and care once in a while. I know he doesn't do it on purpose and I've tried talking to him about it but I don't want to harp on like a nag. I'm losing my patience and I really don't want to because I feel so much for him. From an astrological standpoint, WHY!? His chart -

Rising 14 deg Aries

Sun 7 deg Aqua

Moon 9 deg Gemini

Mercury 26 deg Aqua

Venus 15 deg Pisces

Mars 13 deg Sagittarius

Answer 1

I am an Aquarius and can tell you that you will not 'make' us open up. That is something we do when we are completely comfortable with someone and believe we can trust them.  We will also open ourselves to people we respect and therefore might want their opinion on something.

We do not tell everyone every detail of our life and personal thoughts as we are private people and don't like our personal things revealed.  I know this confuses some people, because others (like Scorpios) will tell everyone everything about themselves and also repeat other peoples personal business - we hate that!

If after 5 months (and knowing this person for 2 years) you do not feel like you know them, it's probably not going to happen.  Re assess where you are in this relationship and decide if this is what you want.

Aquarians will give a relationship their all if they want it.  It doesn't sound like this Aquarian wants this relationship to go much further.  Friendship yes, serious commitment, sorry I think no.

You didn't say what star sign you are.........

Answer 2

Hmm.. I get what your saying dear^^ IM an Aquarius

and often people tell me I dont open up to them a

100%. Well you know what they say about aquarius

were a bit mysterious in nature, so there are things

we like to keep to ourselves..But it really takes time.

If you start opening up to them more and talk about

secrets of your own or things that most people find

difficult to talk about, then most likely aquarius signs

well open up..Because we find that very intrigueing

and it makes us want to open up as well. But if

your conversations are just casual and simple

questions, it'll take a long time to open up.  Were a

great sign (lol) not bragging but we love company,

and friends, Were quite a social type, and believe it or not

we want to open up much more than others, its just that

we need that comfortable feeling to completely open

ourselves to others.. So i'd say make him comfortable

by giving out some secrets of ur and sometimes talk

about topics of odd, strange, or unique nature, and

we will get intersted^^ Just be comfortable with him more

by opening up more and he will eventually open up as well..

hmm.. hope this helpful goodluck :)

Answer 3

Yes they can be very hard to get next to. I used to talk on and off with an aquarius. Some of them like to play games. I hate games but my Aquarius would play them. I'm against this but maybe if you played the ignore game he will come around? OR

Try being friend again and maybe he will come around.

Answer 4

To answer your question, I'm an Aquarius sun and moon..

My best friend (also an Aquarius) and I have known each other for almost 15 years now and we are just now Almost completely opening up to each other.... 15 years.

I'm not saying it's impossible, it just takes a long time and a lot of trust and respect.. Aquarians know a LOT of people, and therefore have high standards for who they show their true colors to. I think it was Hyung that said take your time with them, don't be pushy, and just open yourself up to them slowly.. If you give it all away right away they might not be intrigued by you anymore.. You have to slowly unravel yourself and then they will most likely follow suit if they are truly interested.. If not, they won't. Good luck though, I understand it is a difficult task ahead of you, but if you're up for it, nothing can stop you!

Answer 5

yeah that seems to be the way that the aqua girl is, she never opens up to me and i always have to talk first for anything to pop off, she acts really reserved when it comes to me

sun leo, risng leo, moon aries

Answer 6

I actuallly noticed this quality about aquarians at times they seem cold...but yet they are extreamly s**y and nice. Always polite ...the thing is that these aquarians need their space . They are air signs soo they usually are pretty social and more of their emotions go on with their head. Soo if you like this type of guy stcik with him, If not well you cant change him