Are Aquarius Men Possessive In Relationships ?

Question

My Aqua guy I'm dating right now is great ! He's a wonderful boyfriend, so far. From what I read it said that Aquarius men are independent and not really the jealous type of guy. Before I dated my Aqua, he did act very independent, like he didn't need a relationship, and acted like he didn't care if he was single, etc. I guess I won him over because he sends me text messages everyday and tell's me how much he love's me, and how happy I make him. If I don't reply to his text or call he will text me and ask if I'm sleeping, or say I should wake up so he could talk to me. It seems like he's really in love with me which is great, but it's shocking to me because he never acted like this before. He always acted cold hearted kind of, and like I said before we dated very independent. Is this normal for an Aqua to act like this if he is in love ?

Answer 1

The fact that you are basing the entirety of the their personality on their sun sign alone says how little you know of astroglogy.

The sun sign is simply ONE sign in a person's astrological make-up, and while the most obvious, it does not exist in a vacuum. For example, a person with a sun sign in Aquarius would be considered casual and relaxed and open and whatnot, and would obviously display such characteristics openly. BUT, if their moon sign was in a sign such as Leo or Scorpio or, god forbid, Cancer, their open independent nature would be mitigated by their underlying subconscious inclinations. In the case of Leo, it would be to be loved, adored, respected unquestionably, with no qualifications (Leoes are attention hogs, and thus very insecure, and that doesn't change because its become a subconscious inclination,) or their subconsciousness would see plots and devices and intensity in every little action (Scorpio) or their subconscious would be so emotionally fragile it would pinch and grab at every little slight, wondering if the tide was changing (Cancer.)

Just because a person's sun sign is such and such doesn't mean that other planetary influences aren't also adding to the mix of their behaviors and inclinations. Its normal for a person to be more than just the sum of their sun sign, since they are actually the sum of all of their signs, and the interactions they represent.

Answer 2

Yes, but you have to tread lightly!! Still remain independent and kinda aloof, because the moment they feel like you're acting possessive all of a sudden....they back off!

You should be flattered, because Aqua men aren't the best at showing emotions, so he's really into you.

Just keep my advice in mind if you plan on keeping him around.

Answer 3

I am an Aquarius male.  In general, Aquarians are not jealous types, but that is only taking the Sun sign into consideration.  That is like calling Pizza Hut and telling them that you want to order a pizza, without giving your name, address, the size, and type that you wish to order...an still expect for the delivery driver to arrive at your door in thirty minutes.  In general, Aquarians are very romantic and in love with love.  I have Venus in Capricorn.  This can cause jealousy to be present in a relationship.  It isn't generally unjustified jealousy in the Aquarian male with this placement when jealousy occurs, but it can occur.  I would recommend that you research the other aspects and placements within his chart.  Once an Aquarius is in love, it is amazing how that cold and detached man who you thought that you knew to be that way can fall deeply in love and act like he is...because he is.