Are Cancers always so forgiving?

Question

(I wonder what the morning people have to say about this.)

There's a group of 4 of us. I'm the Sag, there's a Virgo, a Cancer, and a Scorpio. I stopped speaking to the Scorpio for a laundry-list of reasons I won't get into here. The Cancer, for whatever reason, kept taking her back, time after time, each back-stabbing worse than the last.

Things came to a head when the Scorpio fought the Cancer (while the Cancer was strapped into the front seat of a car, and too drunk to move). I found this doubly disgusting--not just because of the obvious incapacity of our Cancerly friend--but because on any other occasion when any of us were ready to fight, the Scorpio backed away, hid behind someone, etc. because she knew she'd get stomped up. (And she still will, according to the Cancer lol.)

The Cancer says this is the last straw, but I honestly wonder if it really is. We've had this conversation before. She never listened. Will she now? What do you think? Would you forgive in this situation?

Answer 1

I'm a cancer and i can forgive a lot. But when you a cross a line with me there's no going back and I'll have nothing to do with you.

Answer 2

I am a Cancer(gemini cusp) and I am extremely forgiving. However, I do have my boundaries. I believe in 2nd chances but not neccessarily 4th and 5th chances. Of course a cancer in love might be more forgiving. The thing is even though I forgive, the relationship loses something every time. Cancers are known for holding on to things and will never forget the pain that they've been caused. Learning to forgive for me(yes i had to learn) really came when I learned to forgive myself for the stupid stuff I had done.

Answer 3

No

Answer 4

Cancer need everyone's love so will try to get it longer than most will...yes, it just might be the last straw...Scorpio? I do not get along with...I am a Virgo...mess with me and I will NEVER forgive...

Answer 5

WOW! don't they sound like a wild bunch of crazies! scorpio can be very underhanded by beating on someone who is unable to fight or by attacking someone who is unconscious already. they rarely will fight one on one with someone because they usually can't fight and will get their *ss kicked. so they resort to getting their licks in when they can, if they can, even if it is fighting cowardly.

If I were you I would leave them all. they are not compatible with, as you are sag and they are all out of your element anyways.

Sagitarious has 4 perfect matches. they are: leo, libra, aries, and aquarius. they are perfect for you as lovers, family ties, best friends and will make you happy and you will naturally understand each other.

aside from that. to answer your original question: yes. cancer will keep on forgiving scorpio and let them make a fool out of them. why? because scorpio and cancer are compatible signs and when you are with a compatible sign you will feel like you will do anything for them and let them get away with murder. I wouldn't forgive but then again, I am a hermit who isn't fond of keeping company anyways. but your cancer friend will, over and over again until something gives.

oh, and a heads up: your cancer buddy might be talking sh*t about you behind your back to her scorpio buddy. which could be part of the reason there is so much animosity between you two. cancer likes to be buddy buddy to your face then turn around and whine and complain about you behind your back. that is why she talks bad about scorpio to you and says it is the last straw, then goes to scorpio and says lets make up and be friends.

Answer 6

Wow, usually scorpios and cancers get along well.

Well as a cancerian girl i know i forgive alot. We don't like to lose friends, therefore we overlook our friends mistakes. Someone had to do something really bad to lose our friendship. There must be something about your scorpio friend that makes the cancer girl keep her around. i dont know if this is the last straw. there must be something that your cancer friend sees that you dont. Though, in my opinion, i would definitely tell your friend to at least distance herself from the scorpio.

Answer 7

If they love you yes but NEVER insult their mother. Or like the cancer gent said they can be sweet and loving but if you injure or hurt them back into the shell they go sadly sometimes forever as they move laterally away farther and farther away from you sad and crabby. As far as your Cancer friend the Scorpio knows she has to watch her back and I use the female gender here because I am assuming they are girls...forgive if I am wrong. The Cancer can be lured back by the Scorpio if she truly and honestly admits she was wrong and made a mistake. Cancers can be coaxed out of their shell will alot of loving and reassurance. As a Sag you see this as unfair and you are right. To beat someone who is uncapable of defending herself is wrong BUT remeber it is you that has a laundry list of reasons to hate the Scorpio and she just added one more to your list. But your Cancerian friend will make up her own mind EVENTUALLY lol as she mulls things over. My advice is get yourself out of this sticky situatrion and just be a friend and good listener don't lecture her or pressure her to lose this loser. She will probably do that on her own if she evaluates the Scorpio is manipulating her feelings. Would I forgive yes forget never. And only one last chance then I would tell her to crawl back under the rock she came out of!