Are High School Relationships even worth it?????

Question

I am allowed to date when I turn 16, which happens to be on the 13th of this month. However lately, I have been wondering if its really worth it. It seems the most 16/17 year old boys are just horny and shallow (not all I know). But yea anyway there are a few guys who like me but I don't know if dating is really worth it in high school. What were your were your experience?

also I'm a virgin and scare boys will pressure me to lose it if I date them.

Answer 1

just look at high school as a practice round for college... stand your ground and don't let anyone pressure you into doing something you're not ready for though! but you have to start sometime and college can be overwhelming with no experience!

Answer 2

Listen if your planning on dating in high school s*x is going to come up and you need to be prepared for it if you plan on dating plan on having s*x... thats the bottom line but also on that note just because you are making the plan to have s*x doesnt mean you have to have s*x or that you will be having s*x any time soon you just need to make a plan if it does happen before you start dating because being so young you will change your mind about things as your relationships progress and if you dont use protection bad things can happen. If you use a form of birth controll and you feel you are not ready simply tell the person that you are not ready and if he doesnt agree with you and support you he is still a young boy who needs to grow up and btw just because you are using birth controll doesnt mean you have to tell your bf because that usually tells them you are ready...any more Qs to wat i said?

Answer 3

We don't happen to be mormon, are we?? hehe its alright, I went through the same thing..

High School relationships have there positive side and negative side. I had two bf's in high school, and thank goodness none of them pressured me to have s*x. I made sure that they knew that i did not want to have s*x. It does give you the opportunity to know what you want and don't want in a more secure relationship. But if you don't end up getting one in high school.. there is always college!

If you do get a bf while still in high school, make sure they know right off that you don't want to have s*x, and don't let them pressure you (you may lose them, but its better in the long run).

Good Luck!

Answer 4

You gotta relax a little.

People date in high school just for fun. Just to say they are dating, make out, hug, etc. (yeah there are real relationships, but they are much different than the other 99% of relationships)

Don't take it too seriously and you won't get hurt or anything.

And don't ever let a guy pressure you into having s*x.

Answer 5

i got my first girlfriend my senior year in high school, and now, a year later, we're still together. It all depends on what you want. 99 percent of people who date at 16 years old wont last in their relationship, so if you want true love I would wait. Find someone that cares, as opposed to the 16 year olds that just look for s*x. plenty of people dont even date in high school, so if you're not wanting a short, meaningless relationship, wait till after. Just relax and wait for that special someone to come. From my experiences, most guys are obsessed with s*x, but theres plenty who care about much more than that, too. Good luck and keep your friends no matter what !!

Answer 6

doesnt really matter date them for like 2 weeks and then dump but when you get 18 then start taking things seoriously your still young HAVE FUN

Answer 7

yes they are worth it. u can meet some of the best guy is high school.  

Answer 8

Just move on babe.

Get over yourself, have s*x whenever you want.

Answer 9

No, us guys have no clue what to do with you guys so we assume you like intimate stuff so we overload on that. Friends are definitely way more fun in high school. I'm not talking about the lousy ones you say hi...small talk...bye to everyday. Im talking about the close friends who've been there for you and those ppl you share your darkest secrets with. But hey, when you are in those late college years, hey come on let us have you. Pls, we'll almost be as mature as you, our strength will have almost doubled, and we actually know what we're doing. Unlike girls, there is a HUGE differene between a college guy and a high school guy. I mean hey, if you don't wanna guy there either thats your loss, but yah ur right in hs its pointless, coming from a guys and friends (girls) experience.

Answer 10

Ok this is wrong. I definately Understand why you would be scared to date or just think its not worth it. Im a guy and I know so many guys that are as you say horny or just want to do this and that with a girl. Honestly you sound like a really nice, respectable girl, and by the way I love the fact that you are still a virgin and you sound like you dont want to loose it anytime soon good for you. Some guys are worth dating, but at 16 most of them are immature and stupid, trust me Im a guy, ive been mature for a while though and have never pressured a girl to have s*x. Do what you think is right if you want to date a guy start of as friends and see what kind of guy he is, some guys are worth it, some are not.

Answer 11

i dated a guy for 2 years of my high school career and i sort of regret.

focus on your friends. they are the ones who will give you a REAL fun time.

Answer 12

i think that u should wait a while i have a lot of guy friends

that all they want is to get some i dont think its worth it

if u find someone u really like then get to know him everyside of him that he has theres nothing bad about not finding someone and saving ur virginity for someone special is the nicest thing for a really couple to lose in the future :D bcareful with the guys though stay on ur toes  

Answer 13

dont be scared who cares if they're not worth it. enjoy it pete's sake! you only have one life

Answer 14

h**l no they're not.

every guy i know always bangs and leaves their gfs.

Answer 15

i think they are if you find someone who treats you right, and will not pressure you. but remember, stay single for a little while, its really fun! just remember, whether single or not, have fun, because these are the best years of your life :D