I've just met this Japanese guy who asked me out.
1st date - he suggested we go to friends to have dinner. afterwards he invited me to cafe, when $6 bill came I offered to pay as a 'test' to see if he would decline. He took all of the $6!
Later I suggested we just be friends as I had a feeling he wasn't over his ex as he brought her up a couple of times in conversation.
2nd time we went out to a movie. He paid his own way. He suggested we get some dinner as he was hungry. At dinner, he suggested I should try such and such dish. So I ordered them but didn't really eat them. He made some slight passes at me at dinner. When bill came he got his card out, then I got my wallet out again to see if he would decline. He ended up saying you don't have to pay half but just pay for what you ate and drank and them some for tip. UGH! Why is he so cheap and stingy? doesn't he want to try to make a good impression? Are guys in Japan like this?
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