Are Virgos passive when it comes to confrontation?

Question

BASED OFF OF PERSONAL EXPERIENCE ONLY.

this virgo girl started a whole bunch of drama with my gemini friend. (I'm a leo) the virgo girl doesn't know I'm friends with my gemini. I wanted it that way because I have a class with the virgo girl and I wanted to hear what she would say about my gemini girl so I could see if she was being fake (for a little while she was like 'lets be friends'). it pisses me the fuq off hearing her talk all that S**t about my friend and I'm so tempted to say something but I don't want to start more drama because they both got sent up to the office for almost fighting and they said if something like that happens again, they'll both get suspended.

gemini friend...L... wanted to fight her because the virgo girl..Kayla was saying that L was raped my one of me and L's guy friends and telling everybody that L was a ho. when L wanted to fight her for saying that D raped L, she was walkin away. D was going off because he's trying to get a scholarship for track. he's really fast and he's broken a lot of records. he's worked realllly hard and a rape accusation could throw all that away. Kayla didn't do anything. I think she talks a lot of S**t but she won't fight because she knows better. somebody needs to tell her not to talk about people who can beat her up.

We're all Juniors in high school. I'm too old to be fighting but I really don't like how she talks about my friend right in front of me and me not say anything just so L can hear what she's talking about (if Kayla knows I'm her friend, L won't get to know what Kayla is saying about her).

Are virgos bullshitters when it comes to confrontation/fighting or is it just her?

Do you think I should say something the next time Kayla says something about L or would that not be a smart decision?

Answer 1

im a virgo and I understand your problem.

its simple, virgo and leo girls dont get along. gemini like gossip a lot even thought they can be friends they do shake up things and then let the others fight, virgo loves to critize and leo its all bout fixing things among people but their way not listening to others point of view. Its all gossip and childish stuff, just let it go and forget about what others say behind others backs, we are all like that at some point. virgo can take alot of offenses and hold for a while in a passive way, but if you get virgo very mad and in a bad time, they will go off and get physical and very dangerous, because we virgos plan things and get revenge with we feel threat, so dont give a virgo your back or front to make them mad.

im telling you by experience that a leo and a virgo fight is very ugly. both of the signs have strenght, leo may forgive but virgo wont. a better way to confront a virgo is mentally and virgo will back down. tell virgo (without attitude) that you dont go behind peoples back and talk dirty about them, that you are mature enough to go and say whatever you need in peoples faces and that makes you a very good and trustworth friend not a snake. so when virgo hears this, they will think about every word you said and it will ponder in their heads, virgos weakness is telling them the truth with big words, that hurts us more than punches and fights, to us fights are a good sport to get stress out and it wont hurt us, but blow words in a mature and intelligent way and they will feel stupid. about gemini, well they get people in trouble and dissapear so dont get all worked up with gemini. if you get virgos trust they can be good and faithful friends, virgos are only mean with people when they dont like them. I avoid leos as friends because I always end up arguing and confrontations because leos want to take control and manipulate others, its their nature, but virgos dont like that. also ingnore virgos and act like you dont care and thats even better.

Answer 2

No, don't say anything, just don't give them attention.

Virgos are die hard perfectionists. If Virgos see that what they're doing isn't working out the way they planned, they'll move on.

So with that, ignoring her would cause her the most confusion and stress. Eventually she will find a new target if she wants to keep her bitching up, and they will feel the same way you are now. Hate for her. And then her plans would go into a complete mess, if they hated her and you hated her too, it's 2 against 1. No way she'd have a chance.

For the meantime, don't give her any reaction of anger/frustration at all. However your friends would have to cooperate too, you guys can vent to each other about her to keep your cool.

Answer 3

Hi Free

I'm a Virgo and confront if I have to and only if I can't knock some sense in the person. I had a Virgo girlfriend and they can be pretty aggressive if pushed . She used to get mad and broke the door once on me. Weird.

You can't hit a lady and I laughed it off but, aside from that, they can confront you and in a mean way as well. They are logical and smart and will not back down.

Answer 4

be a real Friend don,t say any thing to any personal