i read a few answers on another questions asked. BUT heres my situation: i have been with my boyfriend for 4 years. and since about 3 years ago, we've talked about getting married. He's said flat out "i can't wait to marry you, i love you so much, i want to spend the rest of my life with you".... yada yada yada. I moved in with him about 5 months ago. Well Lately i keep mentioning how i'de really like another promise ring or band of some sort, (because my last one got stolen), and when i confronted him on why he hadn't invested the 200 dollars he did in a stereo system for my car that i dint even really want into a ring that i would have absolutely loved...he replied "because when i think of a ring i just think of like, marriage." so what the heck is going on?!
so then i confront him honestly, and i ask him... "are you scared to marry me?" and his reply is " yeah every guys scared to get married."
Is this true. Would most guys say they want to marry you but when it comes to their actions, they completely show the opposite...or is my boyfriend just being an A$$hole and not realizing that the reason i'm still here isnt cuz he wants to marry me but because hes scared he wont find anyone else?
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