I'm a SPED teacher with close to 20 years experience. I hate so say this but throughout all these years, I have gotten many students with different disabilities such as ADHD, bipolar, Emotional disorder, etc. etc. Every time I'm going to get a new student , I try to get prepared for what will be coming (according to previous study of records ) to my surprise and that of my teacher assistant we have never witnessed any of the diagnosed behaviors. I always tell my students the rules on the first day of school and encourage them to comply with them. ALSO, I let them know that I have a rewards program which I start on the very same day. I don't know if I should call this luck or that all these conditions are only there to make some parents feel better for not doing their work.
What I have observed, many parents can't control their children. Also , they don't want to be bother with doing homework or helping them (not all).
I have a parent who's son is starting to read , and when I told Mom to read al home with him, she got so mad and told me that her son was in Special Ed and didn't need to be push. I never got any homework from him . Same thing happens over and over.
Do these conditions really exist? what do you think?
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