In my part of the country, it is now 9:05 PM. I'll be heading to bed in a few minutes, but I've happily just ended my day with a relaxing 2 hours. I have two teenage daughters. Jessica is 13 years old, and Shelly is 16 years old. After they get home from school, they do some homework and then take some time to chat with friends and use the computer. I usually start making dinner right after I get home from work and have it ready on the table by 6. Immediately after dinner, Jess and Shelly head upstairs and go through their bedtime routines. Usually by around 7:00 or so they're both snuggled up under the covers. At this point their more than welcome to read or work on homework quietly in their rooms, but they're rarely up later than 7:30 (if they even stay up at all). After they're asleep I get some time to myself to relax before going to sleep around 9:30. This has been their routine since they were very young. I'm sharing this little story because I've not once received a grievance from either of them...
Bedtime has always been and continues to be a pleasant and secure time of the day. I've heard other parents of teenage daughters complain to me that I don't "give them enough freedom" or "let them stay up late enough", but these same parents will tell me plenty of stories other occasions about unpleasant experiences they've had with attitude and bad behavior. It seems to me like their kids might need a little more "sleepytime"! Do any other parents have a routine similar to this? Do they get as much out of it as my daughters and I do?
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