Are extra-marital affairs bad or acceptable?

Question

I know some married folks who had affairs with someone other than their spouse. Is this shocking or totally acceptable behaviour?

Answer 1

I know one couple where the husband ADMITTED cheating 3x and the wife had a boyfriend - they are still together after 15 years. Yet other couples I know break up after finding out their spouse cheated once.

Depends on the couple and whatever works for them!

Answer 2

Bad and unacceptable.  The better behavior is to stay single or become single if you can't stand the concepts of monogamy and fidelity.