Are my feelings normal or am I just stressed because of my upcoming wedding?

Question

My fiance is in the Army and stationed on the West Coast, whereas I lived on the East Coast. So I broke my three year job contract and left all my friends and family behind.

I've been in my new state for three weeks and I only heard from one member of my supposedly close knit group of friends. So I sent them all a long email on facebook (which they all are on) saying how much I missed them and updating them on my new life.

I only got one response and it just said, "I miss you too".

Today, I saw that one of them had posted a blog and linked me to it. When I went to the blog, the author had included pictures of herself with everyone in the group, except me

I am PISSED off. I want to comment, "Nice pictures"

Answer 1

Just comment..this picture makes me miss you guys even more!

It sucks when people move, you make all these promises that you will stay in touch and email and call and never forget each other, but the truth is, that life gets in the way and life goes on!  I promise you, your friends miss you, but your life is different now and so is theirs.  You just have to get out there and meet new people that you and your fiancee can hang out with!

Answer 2

Moving is hard on everyone.  They could feel that you are deserting them for your husband to be.  You could also be stressed due to your upcoming wedding.  It's a hard thing to plan.  There are a lot of details to remember.  Just realize that these people obviously mean a lot to you or else you wouldn't have them in your wedding party in the first place.  Maybe you should do something a little more personal than a blog on facebook.  Maybe a little handwritten note to each individual telling them how you feel and how lonely you are?  In the meantime, get out there and make some new friends!

Answer 3

having an upcoming wedding myself i have to say it is extremely stressfull but it sounds to me like there not real friends at all.

Answer 4

No you shouldn't be pissed. Be the better person, I know it hurts buy now you know who ur true friend is.