Are my parents weird??

Question

omfg i cant take it anymore! my parents are like always staring at me...and its not "awww my little kid is growing up" stare. they're literally freakin looking at my every move. my mom sometimes comments on how nice my body is and all that c**p and that i should thank her becuz of the genes (she likes to joke around like that) but i dont care if shes my mom. im uncomfortable whether she's my mom or not. and my dad stares at me too....i freakin hate it. its so weird and kinda creepy. and he joked around how i would get a rash on my butt from sitting on the comp. too much, and then when i walked back he just kept on looking at me. omggg. and dont tell me to talk to them about it. the thing is that, im asian. and plus they wont listen or understand cuz most asian parents are like that. so i dont know what to do. and i cant wear cute outfits without being uncomfortable. my dad also commented how my butt got a little bigger?? my mom told me that my dad said that and she didnt say anything about it! she just told me that its true, and im like WTF? dont u think that i would be uncomfortable with you guys looking at me? MY GODD. and plus they just annoy me most of the time in general... ugh. and im more creeped out by the fact my dad stares at me. i dont like to wear bathing suits around him..but he tries to get me in our jacuzzi (i dont know if he wants me to have fun or see me in a bathing suit) since i sit around the computer all day....

im soo sorry i typed alot. i appreciate everyone who reads this whole thing and tries to help me.

Answer 1

omg!! thats so weird!! the only thing i can say is live through it because there probably ISNT anything you can do...just think: you'll move out soon enough. i feel soo bad for u and i'll pray so hard tht things get better for you. Try avoiding your dad, he sounds kinda creepy.

Answer 2

get active, but not the bad kind of active, just go outside more, don't sit on the computer all day, ride a bike, take a walk, eventually they'll stop being so "watchful" and you can live life normally

Answer 3

if they stare at you tell them to stop or just stare right back.  that way if you kept staring at them, they could be like 'why are you staring at me?' and you can say 'idk it`s what you do'  that`s what I would do.

Answer 4

you have two choices. deal with it, or talk to them.

sorry, but it's true.  

Answer 5

the most fascinating thing is to see the almost dayle changes is a pre-teen or young teen

a parent can see them grow

gut if your feel that your dad is lusting after you then tell him you feel uncomfortable about it and see how he acts

Answer 6

lol did you ever think that maybe they're admiring you...