Are people just going to have to eccept me for what I am, a eccentric, bitter, emotional mess? ?

Question

With a heart of gold?

Answer 1

h**l yeah! i am exactly the same and if people cant deal with that then its their loss, you are perfect if you remain true to yourself you'll find people who can accept you and they will be all you need!

Answer 2

If they want to have a relationship with you I guess so. But wouldn't it behoove you to get help in stabilizing your emotional state for the sake of good mental health?  

Answer 3

They will accept you based on their own perception of you and your looks at first.  Then theyll get to know your personality and some will stay and some will not.  That's how things are.

Answer 4

they beeter or i will open a can of whopp a$$ on them  

Answer 5

I like the sound of you! I'm quite similar!

Answer 6

yes - and you need to also

Answer 7

We are who we are. Lucky for you, you don't act the way you truly are. The world IS a lie. The way some people will treat you can be ugly a lot of times. But adding to the jumble with your own share of bitterness and eccentricity will only reaffirm that reality. You have the power to discipline yourself. No doubt, you'll slip more than you succeed, but it's not impossible. People function in complex ways, but they generally respond in simple ways. If you compliment a person, he/she will remember you. If you lend someone your pen, he/she will feel accepted. Train yourself to make people feel good about themselves. You'll become a completely different person. That isn't to say you won't be fighting your battles. What goes on inside should be vented through other means (therapy, hobbies, etc.). People will respect your level of maturity and capacity. You have a heart of gold. Make it known.

Answer 8

The problem is, the ones who would persevere to get to that heart of gold would be too hurt by the bitterness along the way...

Answer 9

why would you care if they do? Because you are an eccentric, bitter emotional mess with a heart of gold lol....and people will have to accept you the way you are...the ones that do, have seen past the exterior that you display, and see you for who you are...the ones that attack you and criticize you, are the ones that you don't need...because they do not have the insight, to see you for who you really are.....