Are people like this to you?

Question

When you tell family and friends that you want another baby or trying. Do they look at you like your crazy? Do they tell you don't need another one or you don't have the money to raise a baby or another baby?

Well I am so sick of people judging me and making fun of me be hind my back at work. I am 24 I have two children im engaged to be married next year. I am really really wanting to have my last child now. Like tonight when I was at work talking to my co-woker she went behind my back and told my manger I think I might be pregnant like she needs another one. Why can't people just mind there own.

Answer 1

When you tell your business to coworkers you leave yourself wide open to gossip. But as the saying goes ""opinions are ike ----holes...everyone has one..but the only one that counts is yours. I can remember years ago someone saying if you wait till you can afford/or are ready for  a baby you will never have one.

Answer 2

Some people are just like that..... dont worry about what other people think if you wanna have another baby have another baby and if people have a prob with that then that is there problem.

Answer 3

Unfortunately, people are always going to have something negative to say.

If you are a good, loving family and have the means to do so, then do what makes you happy.

As far as the financial part, according to one answer posted about waiting, there is never going to be a time when you have enough money saved up to have a child(unless you are flthy rich!), and as long as you can take care of your children, I say go fot it:)

My husband and I have a 3 and 1 year old, and he also has a 5 year old from a previous marriage. We are anything but financially secure, but our kids have NEVER gone without...EVER. We pay out $700/month in child support to his ex-wife, pay our bills and spend whatever we need to on our kids, depending on what they need. Once you become a parent, your own needs do not matter(which I am sure you understand!), and instead of getting those cute shoes or whatever, you end up spending every last dime on your kids...even if you know they really do not need another toy! :)

Do what you want. If people continue to try and keep you down, try to ignore it. You have 2 beautiful children, are trying for number 3 AND you are getting married...all you need to do is be happy!!

Best of luck to you!

Answer 4

People used to be like that with me too.  Just ignore them and do what you want to do.  Try not to tell people to much of your personal business because that's where they get there ammunition.

Answer 5

People will never mind their own. Do what makes you happy, but also do what is right. If you can take care of another child, by all means... If money's gonna be tight, or its already tight, you should think about bringing in another child to this world. Good Luck!

Answer 6

Because it's not the nature of people to do so.  It's sooooooo easy for people to judge other people's lives yet they do not lead the perfect lifestyle themselves.  Don't worry too much about it, do what you feel is right in your heart.