Are people who save their virginity for their spouses more trustful?

Question

e.g., do you think they would not cheat on you or something like that?

Answer 1

yes they are, because they never had the "sow their wild oats" urges as other did.

Answer 2

no i mean. i dont think just bc some1's not a virgin they'll cheat on me but then again i would have to go out with them for a while just to make sure they're trustworthy and want cheat on me

Answer 3

Yes they are because if they spread it around before marriage they are more likely to do so after marriage.  

Answer 4

i don't think so. I think that people that hold on to their virginity is  because of religion, culture, ethics, moral values... amongst other things, but just because you do that doesn't mean they are gonna be more trustful. Trustfulness and saving your virginity i think are not correlated at all!

Answer 5

No i dnt think so, because some virgins make out and are willing to go anywhere but there meaning "all the way". I think what ever they do with their significant other besides having s*x, they are capable of doing with someone else, but that is if cheating is in their nature. To think that a virgin is not capable of cheating would be a naive assumption.On the other hand it does show that they have morals and they usually feel that being intimate with certain people requires alot of thought, feelings, and most importantly love.

Answer 6

Not necessarily, though it does suggest some commitment values that can be important in a relationship. It mostly depends on WHY the person is a virgin. But there are plenty of faithful people who came into relationships not a virgin, and plenty of former virgins who are cheaters now. The best thing about virginity, really, is just that you know someone isn't bringing in an STD or unwanted child into your relationship. That'll help you sleep at night. LOL!

Answer 7

h**l no i think they might cheat even more out of not knowing whats out there and what if there husband is really bad at it and she wants to try something better and really know what crazy wild hot monkey s*x is !  

Answer 8

I know someone who saved her self for her husband and now after being married for 21 years she's thinking about cheating cause she's never had s*x with anyone but her husband and she thinks she's missing out or did miss out or that there could be a better O for her out there somewhere  . .  . I personally think you should try it before you buy it cause what if it doesn't work for you . . a healthy s*x life is part of a healthy relationship  

Answer 9

Not at all! If anything, I think just the opposite.

From what I've seen, those who are virgins at marriage are more prone to cheat AFTER they've gotten an idea of what s*x is about and have had some experience with their husband/wife. While those who have already had the experience(s) before marriage, have usually gotten fed up with the whole scheme of things and are ready to actually settle maturely into a relationship and commitment as deep as marriage is supposed to be.

Personally, I don't believe in the concept of marriage - I never have and never want to be married - but I'd much rather 'settle' into a relationship with someone who's had enough experience to know they actually WANT to be committed to me.

Commitment is worthless unless the other person wants to commit willingly, and does so with enough knowledge of their options before deciding to do that.

Answer 10

I would say they are less likely to commit adultery if they are virgins before marriage.  My wife and I both were virgins on our wedding night and have never regretted waiting until then to have s*x all these 30 years later.  There have been several times we both were tempted, but our commitment to Jesus and to each other meant more than spending an eternity in h**l for a fling which wouldn't last longer than the time it would take to get caught, plus Jesus would know about it immediately.  He is coming back soon at a date no one knows.  Neither one of us would want to have Him return and catch us in sin, for there would be no escape from h**l then.

Answer 11

My motto:  Never trust a virgin.  (Because there is good chance they are lying!)

Answer 12

i believe so. mainly because they did not develope a taste for "wild oats".

in other words, they wont know what they are missing by being with other people.

their soul and body will belong to that 1 person.