warning this starts off as a touchy debate- but my real prupose are aspects, dynamics and revelations from various perspectives, (hence the slight provocativeness of it): pls be biased- do not take this personal!! but look at it objectively...
i dumped this guy a little while after i found out that he was in his early 20's and had a 2 yo gal... no problem, but i was finishing undergraduate school going on to pursue my graduate degree (and im going beyond that) and i did date for fun... but when i realized that we were just lust- though he wanted more... and that we would of never go any deeper when he told me that he had no idea what he wanted to do w his life and had never taken a college course in his life... i knew that i was much more driven intellectually... i thought that common sense child or not when you have one or you want to plan on having some someday (i know "things" happen/ but he's shared custody w his x for 2 yrs) that youd want the best for them. that's when i knew he was a lazy az... anyhow i saw him recently and he thinks he still has a chance! it's been 2 yrs and he is the same person 2 yrs ago! im so insulted! dont tell me raising a perfectly happy child doesnt make a difference bc that's total BS! money is a powerful tool- a wise person can handle it... not all wealthy ppl's kids turn out to act like their made... just like not all lower class children are jail prone right? lets have a debate...
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