Are pre-marital s*x & use of artificial birth control considered bad things?

Question

I don't mean to offend anybody with this question I posted. Its just that I want to know wider view regarding these. I'm kinda liberated person but I live in a conservative country with strong influences from the Catholic church when imposing laws. One of the hot topics being debated here issues regarding pre-marital s*x & use of artificial birth control/contraseptives (like condoms, pills, injects, etc.). I honestly find these two things OK but people here in my place aren't & my family thinks I'm bad because of that.

I know we all have different perceptions in life but still I'm confused because of the country I'm living in.

Answer 1

Haha. First of all you need to understand that there is no 'god'. If you really think you are going to some 'heaven' or some 'h**l' because of choices you make in this life then read no more.

I think if you want to have s*x have s*x. You sound responsible anyways. You are going to practise safe s*x. We need more people in this world doing that. The practise of safe s*x isn't done enough. Thats why you see all these teenagers and young adults with kids. I bet over half of them are due to unsafe s*x.

Answer 2

I think it is gullible, naive and even stupid to think that people can resist the power of the hormones God created within you.

And that it is only sensible to accept that people will "slip up" or whatever.....and that making laws about this amounts to a n**i-like control over the minds and hearts of people.

Not very wise.