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Ok, so i go to Finneytown School District Schools, & finneytown is my first school where i can where clothes, and carry lunch tray's, i kno that sounds lame to u, but i have been in Charter Schools ( Where i would wear uniforms) for 6 years, and i already spent 2 years in the finneytown schools, where i took 5th & 6th, and i am about to start Middle School Finally, & Acutally This MS (Middle School) i am about to start is my very first school with Bells (Like 1st & 2nd Bell) & Lockers, i have been wanting to start this for a very long time. Now, i kno i should just be my self, but i'm a little over weight, (i'm 11) for my age, and i'm afraid people might mistake me for that "Oh - that - fat - girl - so - mean" Stereotype. Becuz a long time ago kids would back away from me becuz they thought i would crush them. lol, i kno, but i am a very nice girl, & i get that alot, but some people just mistake me for the wrong thing, i try to lose the weight, but what i notice about me, i never really finish what i start, so sometimes i think that i really cant lose it, i want to make alot of friends, but out of all the ft commutity, i only have 2 friends. i want many friends like others, but it's so hard for me to make them, sometimes, i'm afraid people dont wanna be friends with the fat girl, is there any books to help me survive this adventure i am about to begin this coming tuesday? is there any ways i can survive it? Plz i dont want to be mistaken for any fat @#$ mean girl stereotype.

(I kno i should ignore them but, i cant it's just like their reminding me)

Answer 1

First off, Your eleven you most likely haven't even started puberty yet.You shouldn't worry so much about what others think.

You'll do fine.

Edit-This is for the other answerer:Alright sweetie, first of all I don't even know the girl so don't expect me to me all lovey dovey with her.I'm just telling her straight up.Anyways, I said she would do fine,which she will.

Second(this is for you),I am a SOPHMORE.I've been through elementry,middle,and now high school.Please, just know that yes,some people ARE still stupid and make fun of you for the littlest things.Just learn to ignore it, because that young one below me does have a point, you have to make more friends since you have more classes.It's actually really easy, and you WILL make friends without even realizing it. Just ignore the immature people that make fun of you.They are just bored and have no lives, and please, do not worry. Because if you get made fun of now,all of that stops in high school,because then people really ARE mature and they know not to mess with people.

Good luck, and i'm sorry if i came off a little harsh.

(:

Answer 2

I'm not gonna say what the other girl said and act like you're feelings don't matter just because you are only 11. In middle school, people grow up. People don't care about your weight. They just care about cliques. Like nerds, populars, normals, etc. Nobody will really care about your weight because it is childish to call somebody fat to their face. People are too old for that. And if somebody is childish enough to call you that, then tell them to p**s off, because they are really mean to call somebody that. If the person still is calling you that constantly, tell a teacher. Most people wont tell just because they think the person will call you a snitch, but all you have to do is tell the teacher not to tell the student who told. When you tell, bring a couple of friends with you to back you up, because they will probably hear it too. Making friends is a lot easier in middle school, because not all of your friends are going to be in your periods, so you have to make more friends. Also, you can join lots of clubs and sports teams to make friends with your teammates and fellow club members.

Hope I Helped. Bye