Are there any decent guys left in this world?

Question

I'm a 22 yr old single female and the thought of ever getting married is getting less and less appealing cause when i come on here all i read about is men who cheat,p**n addicts,are wanting 3-somes with their wives and another woman,abusers,alcoholics,drug addicts and gambling problems..It makes me sad and i wonder if there are any good decent men left in this world.

Answer 1

well its already on verge of extinction.. so if you wanna marry be quick.. otheerwise they will be extinct...

Answer 2

This is a forum to talk about the issues...of course there are decent guys.

You are not looking hard enough. Don't judge guys by what you read on here.....go out in the real world and meet them.

Then you can write back and tell us all about them!!

Answer 3

yes i am one. the thing is that you are looking in the wrong places and for the wrong guy. Pick a different guy from which you normally choose (lifestyles). there are plenty of good guys out there . just look around and see how many people are married and have happy lives.  

Answer 4

ofcourse, there are but your not gonna find them on yahoo answers! lol... go out

Answer 5

Katie, At the risk of being bashed for Christian ideals, the best bet for any woman is the church.

Men who are single in church are hunted down by the wise women...trust me. There's even seminars for young guys in church on how to avoid these "Moral diggers".

I know two girls ..twins who are gorgeous, intelligent, stable, strong and comfortable in their own skin. They exude calm, peace, gracefulness...they're 24, and any man would be lucky to land one as a wife. They help watch my daughters and I'm amazed that they are simply saving themselves for the right man, and in the meantime continuing to become independent and yet understanding interdependent in a relationship. They've been church goers all their lives.

There are single guys who are waiting, who are handsome, talented, great personalities and go getter's who would make any woman an excellent husband...and I don't use "excellent" lightly.

There are also the strays who come in to scam on the women, and like I said, women to scam on men. A friend of mine told me a woman his wife and he were trying to help through a divorce started chasing the single pastor before she was even divorced!

But if you think you'll find someone of value at AA meetings, or NA, or Joe's Bar and grill...have at. You get what you pay for...and the risky odds are not in your favor.

but don't take my word for it, go visit a couple of churches to see if what I am saying is true.

Answer 6

No there only animals en pigs  ,dogs but may be in Mars or another planet

Answer 7

Nope.  I thought those were my good qualities.  You're tough.

Answer 8

There are decent guys. You just have to look. I am married to the greatest guy ever.

Answer 9

sure there re. i am married to one - isn't p**n, drug, alcohol addict, has brilliant career, get very high salary, takes care of me and my kids, takes me places and makes my life fun. another thing i really can't understand those people who say marriage is a hard work. why? my marriage is like a stroll in the park - lots of fun and pleasure. no work at all. but keep in mind - he is my second husband. the first one was a complete loser and abuser

Answer 10

yeah, there are, just not very many of them, so it is hard to find them, and they go pretty fast too I think. But I bet if you just wait long enough, then when you least expect it he will show up. At least that's what I hope for you. Kinda hoping the same for me too. Because I won't settle for someone who isn't decent.

Answer 11

Yes there are and I'm not getting married again as there are no decent women left in this world.

Answer 12

There are decent men here, unfortunatly we have wives who cheat on us.  My wife is notoriously bad...she even stepped out of our 5 year olds party to shack up with her bf.  She is so stupid she fights with me wanting to go share a hotel room with a bf and another girl (ad have a threesome) with them.  My god, it's a sick world.  But I have hope there are some good people out there.

Answer 13

No one is perfect. Men are just as weak as women and women do these things as well, doesn't mean nobody is going to try. Decent? yes but it also depends on your definition. I never want to get married, because I like being on my own and going out and flirting. I have my family to keep me stable and make my life meaningful, but to me the idea of marriage and kids is appaling, not because i can't find anybody but because i've been with these decent men and it just gets boring and you lose yourself.

Answer 14

Yes. I'm not a player. I love God above all. I respect people. I believe in love and the right person.

Sadly, guys like me end up with with bad girls. I married a women who has mislead me to think she was this angel on earth. She turned out to be bipolar and a pathological liar. She wants a divorce now. We don't have kids. She's been going out all night. I moved out 2 weeks ago and waiting for the divorce papers from her. That's what happens to the nice guys. We end up getting really heartbroken.

I guess I'll be single again soon. I don't know for how long, but there are good guys out there like me. Just please show up before the bad girls do and take us before they come to try and steal your thunder.

Answer 15

Yes, there are still good men out there.  You read more about the "problem" ones here because people who are in great relationships don't post questions asking "I'm so madly in love and have the perfect man.  Isn't that lovely?".  This forum is for advice, and people don't typically seek it when things are good.  You're still very young and have plenty of time.  Just remain patient and know that there are great guys out there.  Don't settle for one of the crappy ones and you won't have to worry about posting sad stories here.

Answer 16

They are already married or g*y.

Answer 17

I recent that, I think I am a good guy,: just ask my friends.

Answer 18

there are LOTS of nice guys... but the nice guys get ignored and shunted aside so you can/do date/marry "bad boys"... then when you're divorced and 30something YOU'll be ignored because HE's now dating the hot 20somethings you USED to be.