Are there any girls in America left that are like this??

Question

Ok, I just made a gf here in Korea, she is 23, a couple years older than i am, and she has never had a bf before. She doesnt drink, doesnt smoke, is very religious, and she got really flustered when i asked her to be my gf, even at 23. I love her because she seems to be such a stable and loyal person and i definently believe she is wife material. Even though attitudes here are becoming more western, this type of thing is still not uncommon here. Even kissing her on the cheek was a big deal for her, and she hasn't even experienced that before.

I find this humorously ironic considering some of the questions posed by guys here on Y!A back in america, for example one guy talking about how girls are starting to pressure him for s*x on the first date, or how 13 and 14's are asking for s*x advice (which kind of shocked me but not really surprised me) lol

Answer 1

Yes, there are girls like that in America.

Answer 2

She's 23, never had a boyfriend, doesn't drink, doesn't smoke, is religious, and hasn't fooled around at all with guys before... of COURSE there are girls like that in America :P

The easiest places to find them are in small suburban Protestant churches (especially "reformed" ones), or in any Latter-Day Saints temple (aka "Mormon church"), or by bookstore shelves stocked with titles like "Every Young Woman's Battle" and "When God Writes Your Love Story" and "I Kissed Dating Goodbye."  Also, keep an eye out for girls who are wearing TLW (True Love Waits) or CTR (Choose the Right) jewelry.

Your Korean gf is not your only option if you like girls like that... but if you've found love and it works, why switch? :)  Best of luck to you both.

Answer 3

please do not assume all american girls are easy...

i, in all honesty, had never done anything besides kiss a boy before i met my husband...

he was my first in almost every aspect (besides kissing)

and it was a big deal for me too...i was a virgin til my wedding night

Answer 4

I think these days guys looking for just "wife material" should  try the dog pound, mail-order bride services or in the yellow pages under maid service or call girls.  Most American girls are much more than mere "wife material" and are attracted to a much better man than a bubba.

Answer 5

And . . . how much have YOU done in your life to contribute to the perception that American girls are easy?  Did you ever pressure a young lady for s*x?  And now that you're thinking of settling down, you want a girl who never met a guy like you.  How sweet.

Answer 6

I married the first guy I ever dated. I was a "good girl" and I was still a virgin when I married him. I have never smoked, never drank (not even a sip) and I never really partied either. I am a Christian and God is a major part of my life. I have a lot of friends that are like that too. And  yes, I'm an American.  

Answer 7

yea i think so, theyll just be harder to find

Answer 8

Yes, there are a lot of girls like this here in Hawaii, although being that they are like that, I highly doubt that you would be allowed any where near her without her family supervision.  Just because they may be difficult to find that does not mean they do not exist.  =P

Answer 9

american girls are easy

Answer 10

Girls are like that everywhere around the world. If her parents are really strict then this deff. has something to do with why she acts this way. A little bit of Innocence to, who can you blame? Guys in america like that atleast you know shes different. She also seem like a tough one, keep trying dont give up on here Im sure shes beautiful and by her acting differently symbolizes the fact that shes even more beautiful because of her being different.

-Shes a good one. Good luck with her

Answer 11

sweetie, I could tell you I'm a virgin and there's no way you could prove me wrong...

Answer 12

Sure.  But just remember, lack of experience does not equal these things.  There is much more needed than not drinking, not smoking and never having a boyfriend to be a life time companion.   I would question her social abilities and maturity level and how compatible this is with yours.

However, I would MUCH rather a situation be like yours than the ones you mentioned.