Are there any ladies going through the same thing?

Question

My man is in prison right now and I live alone. I pay everything on my own and I get so lonely sometimes!! Is there any ways to cope with the boredom and stress? I get so overwhelmed sometimes that I just burst out crying. It's such a hard struggle and it would make things a little easier if I knew I wasn't all alone!

Answer 1

No I'm not going thru the same thing. Sorry for how you feel. It can be rough.  Maybe you should start dating other people...I'm sure he is.  

Answer 2

No your not alone! I've been thru this plenty of times.

Try living your normal life and pick up a couple of extra activities to keep your mind off of it.

He will be home soon.  Write plenty of letters to him and let him know how you feel so you are talking to some one who really knows and care about your thoughts.   It will allow you to feel better knowing  that you are getting it off your chest.  Don't worry things will get better soon.

Answer 3

I can't relate to my man being in prison, but I know how it feels to be lonely and the only one responsible to handle the bills. I don't know how my fiance ever took care of himself without me. He is so irresponsible and immature. My man lives with me, but I feel all alone, he is literally obsessed with the computer all he ever does is play fantasy football and talk to people on his Bills Message Board, he hardly ever pays attention to me we barely ever go out and I cry all the time because I have no hobbies and am so bored, the only thing I do is watch TV when I get home, which gets old really quick. I feel so alone because through the course of our relationship several of my friends have moved away or gotten married and I never see them so there's literally nothing to do. I feel so insecure and at least once a week I burst into tears because I feel unwanted and completely bored with life. I know this a completely different scenario, but I understand how you feel and I hope this makes you feel better knowing that there are others who can relate.

Answer 4

distraction

its the key, keep your mind busy, and i agree write letters he will be lonely as well.

Answer 5

GO OUT MEET NEW PEOPLE FRIENDS YOU WILL REALLY RELEASE ALOT OF STRESS BY GOING OUT AND HAVING FRIENDS YOU WONT BE THINKING ABOUT YOUR PROBLEMS SO MUCH TRY IT YOU SEE ITS GOING TO WORK.LIFE IS TO SHORT TO BE AT HOME THINKING ABOUT YOUR PROBLEMS LONELY ENJOY I DON'T KNOW HOW OLD ARE YOU BUT YOUR NEVER TO OLD TO HAVE FUN AND START A NEW LIFE.

Answer 6

write him letters

write down plans you have for y'all to do with eachother when he gets out

if you can... take some cute pictures of yourself that he can have.

Go out with some friends everyone once in a while

find some good books to read.

take a dance class or learn some new kind of hobby

I am sorry that you feel so lonely

I hope that this helps a lil bit