I can't think of any.
To clarify, I am not talking about adoption through foster care where there may very well be safety issues, but rather newborn domestic adoption.
Leaving selfishness, fear, insecurity (on everyone's parts) aside, what would be a good reason to either walk away from your child (from the first mom's POV) or deny your child the chance to experience their roots throughout their childhood (from the adoptive parents POV).
I adopted from China for a myriad of reasons, however, lack of contact with first families was not one of them. In fact, we placed that on the con list. I would have loved to have that relationship for my daughter, so it's hard for me to imagine either a first or adoptive parent shutting the door.
So I imagine there must be some good reason that good people make this choice.
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