Are there any men in here that have married a formerly promiscuous woman?

Question

Everyone has a different idea of "promiscuous," but whatever it is, are you a man who has accepted and fallen in love with a female with such a past? By "formerly promiscuous," I mean someone who has obviously fallen in love with you (the man) and sees no need in pursuing multiple or casual partners as she did in the past.

Serious answers, please. People say "I would never marry someone who had this and that," but how many of you men did? Are you happy with your relationship?

Answer 1

nothing against em, but i wouldnt marry a women who was promicious. i just cant do it. im not judging, but its just a turn off.

Answer 2

First I am a woman. I was very promiscuous. I have been with well over a hundred men. When I was younger (in the '60s) many of us were promiscuous. It was a way of life. When I married the first time I was never with anyone else. It lasted 17 years. After the divorce I had fun fun fun. Then in '85  I married a second time. We are still together and I have not wanted anyone else. Both husbands knew about my past. Neither ever brought it up. Our lives started the day we meant

Answer 3

Yep, she changed. Not because I asked her to, but because she wanted to be with me, and understood that I wouldn't accept that from any wife of mine.

If I weren't happy with my relationship, I wouldn't be marrying her.

All I need to know about my partner's sexual history are the following:

abuse/infidelity

pregnancies/offspring

STDs

Answer 4

All three of my wives were 'promiscuous' before I married them, AS WAS I.......what's good for the goose is good for the gander. Why would anyone expect the woman to be a "good little girl" if the man's been a whoredog??

The divorces were because of other issues (the first one, I was too young and using the wrong head to think with; the second one involved a woman who suffered serious mental issues brought on by childhood trauma that was only triggered by the marriage; and this one has lasted 31 years, but has soured because of her chronic long-term alcohol abuse). I never had any issues or concerns over how many men any of my wives had been with before me.

That was really none of my business, and certainly formed no basis for - or against - our relationships.

Answer 5

Quit saving these oO'0s.

-RKO I hope you see the correlation in all that by now.

Answer 6

The 'formerly' part implies very strongly that they have changed their ways.

Women still sleep around when they are married, they are just a lot more discreet about it.

Answer 7

My husband has...and he benefits nicely, thanks.  He has the benefit of all my experience, and I got my wild oats sowed and out of the way so that I could enjoy the rest of my sexual life with him...

Answer 8

I think some have married them not knowing they were promiscuous, and once they find out it's difficult to accept or to live with.

Some things are better not discussed and just kept secret.