Are there ever days when you want to be totally alone?

Question

There is nothing wrong that would make me feel this way, but, sometimes I wish I had a day COMPLETELY to myself. As much as I love my husband, and my pets, I wish they could just have the house to themselves and let me have a day at a spa or a resort or a hotel room all to myself. I don't think this makes me a bad person.

Do you ever feel this way? Whataya say? Y!A day spa trip? :-)

Answer 1

Cristi!!!! I am totally with you on this. I have some of those days. And it doesn't make you or I a bad person....Women just need that every once in a while....

So let's go!!!

Answer 2

Yeah i feel that way sometimes.

Answer 3

i get like that...i just like to be able to lounge and not have to do anything...sometimes you need that time for urself...and we are def not bad people. =)

Answer 4

I think every person needs a day to there self's No this dose not mae you a bad person

Answer 5

That's completely normal. We all need time to ourselves sometimes.

Answer 6

Everybody should have a whole day to themselves. It is very therapeutic.

Answer 7

Yes. I used to feel guilty about it, too. I have three kids (5 and under), have been married for 13 years. 11 year old dog with the bladder the size of a walnut. Need I say more? I could use a Spa Day!!!!! Take me with you, please.

Answer 8

Yes, there are days when I want to be alone with my thoughts and curl up with a book. Ideally sitting on balcony overlooking a lovely scenic view or water, if not a really comfy chair and some indugent chocolate would be a decent second choice.

Spa trip sound like a great plan : )

Answer 9

yes, my birthday...I think you know why.

Answer 10

Alone time is terribly important. You are not unique in this dilemma, many people share it.

You just have to put your foot down and tell him that you need time to yourself.

I'm lucky because i get plenty of it, and I really do enjoy it too.  :o)  

Answer 11

Oh most definately!! I'm all for a day spa trip!!  I would love to have a day like that!  The only alone time I have is going and coming home from work.  How said is that!  I think we as women deserve a day to ourselves every now and then.

Answer 12

Oh my gosh yes!!!  As much as I love my fiance, 2 kids and 4 cats, give me some private time already!  Treat yourself to that spa girlfriend and have fun for all of the rest of us who can't get a second of peace and quiet to ourselves!

Answer 13

I agree! Some days you just don't want to have to say anything... to anyone, it's just like a rest for your mind... =)

Answer 14

I get the house to myself most of the week, once they've left for work, it's just me Milly, Amy and Bob, it heaven.

I can do some work, have a nice walk, and then sit down all afternoon and do whatever l please.

Answer 15

yeah, today

Answer 16

haha!

Yes!

You just totally described my mood today :)

Actually, I'm currently locked in my room in the dark pretending I'm not home.

My boyfriend is wandering around the apt thinking I haven't gotten home yet.

shhhhhhh :D

Answer 17

I have a husband, 2 kids, 5 dogs,and 7 cats.  I also take care of my 80 year old grandmother.  I am never alone.  I would pay to be alone!!  I forgot want it feels like to be alone.  

Answer 18

im alone all the time

when i f**t people go away from me......

Answer 19

well my hubbys a truck driver so i'm very happy with the dogs during the week. but yesterday i unplugged the phone for about 4 hrs for

<-<-obvious reasons. just needed quiet for awhile.

Answer 20

Yep, and those are the days that my husband decides its actually time to want to spend quality time with me, AFTER MONTHS OF BEING IGNORED.

Answer 21

Yes there are such day and i think it is normal to have such feeling....

Answer 22

Not really. I enjoy the company of my parents,siblings,and dogs. If I DO want 'alone' time, then all I have to do I go down into my room! Or if I want to get away from people I just go outside and play with the dogs or go onto the computer!

A spa, today,right now? (lol) I can't! Today's is my parents anniversary! =D

Answer 23

everyone needs some "me" time

Answer 24

Absolutely.  I get to where I just want to hide in a room, where it's quiet and no one can find me.  Everyone needs at least a little alone time to themselves for some peace and quiet.

I feel this way right now actually.  I'm sick as a dog, have to be at work, and just wish I could go somewhere to hide.

Y!A spa day sounds like a blast!

Answer 25

Totally, but it is hard with a wife two young kids and a dog...I havent had a vacation more than a long weekend since my honeymoon seven years ago, and there wasnt much alone time then ;)...I would just like to go on a day hike with a good book for a day!!!