Are there many people willing to wait til marriage for s*x?

Question

Virgin until Wedding Night?

It seems like many people can't make it and just lose their virginity, mostly during High School.

Is it mostly Religious people that wait til marriage?

I Salute/Admire people that are strong enough to resist s*x until Marriage!

Must be a hard wait but in the end all is good when you have your first s*x with the one you will be with for life. "unless you divorce of course"

And Here is a good quote that I mentioned earlier.....

"I respect the man who is man enough to only give himself to the ONE woman worthy of him"

I want to wait and its not hard for me to wait. I just hope that my future wife will be a virgin

Answer 1

s*x befor marriage is nt practice its s*x , i dont think waiting till marriage is "propper" i think personally that you should wait till your comfortable... if your church and religon have bangged it in to your head that its the only way to go ... then maybe you should wait , but otherwise its s*x... plain and simple it can be wild, and it can be horrible, the fact of the matter is its up to you .... i didnt wait and i dont think im sinning in any way (probly bc im not religiious) i dont feel horrible after the deed maybe a lil shaky in the knees though  and i dont feel like ive cheated my self either.... and yes its mostly religous ppl who wait and or loosers who somone would think there to distgusting to do lol

Answer 2

i agree with you all the way i was also a virgin till my marriage

Answer 3

Some wait, but not many...and for many who choose not to wait (most acutally) it's not a matter of "can't make it" until marriage but choosing not to.

I never considered waiting until marriage...I saw no reason to...nor in being celibate in between marriages or after a marriage ends.

To each, their own...

Answer 4

Honestly in this day and age it is very very rare. I say most people lose their virginity in high school or college. But a woman with strong beliefs will obviously be a virgin.

Answer 5

waiting till your wedding is the way to go.

say your honey moon is your birthday, and your partner is your present... who wants to unwrap used goods on their birthday?! not me. lol.

its awesome to wait because not only does it show great self control, character and respect, it is also a great way to a healthy relationship. without the pressure of physical stuff in a relationship, you can get to know a person really really well with a clear head and not overwhelming feelings getting in the way. you are able to make decisions based on what information you have gained from each other instead of what the things in your pants are telling you. you are able to pick a life partner with no baggage, stds, emotional wounds of a sexual past attatched. Its a clean fresh slate, its a great thing!

I believe im worth the wait.

and i believe a decent man is worth the wait too!

you dont need practice. thats a copout. s*x is not a game to practice. s*x is a beautiful gift made for man and wife as something that binds them together closer than anything else in the world. it is a gift to them for their committment to each other, a way in which to enjoy each other completely. it is precious and exclusive, and the world has made it so cheap and tacky and free.

yeh its hard to wait. hormones are gonna kick in, but it takes a real man, and a real woman, to make it to the honeymoon a virgin. you can do it! but you gotta make a quality decision. i know a couple who didnt even kiss till their wedding day! it was adorable. they were so in love and there wedding kiss was absolutely amazing, everyone cheered and they embraced for ages and they were glowing and beaming with joy! it was so lovely and i dont know... pure!!!!

so yeh, i know a few couples who have made it. and they did it by setting boundaries for themselves. no time alone at night. no sharing a bed, even if its to just watch a movie or something. No kissing to long coz you know where thats gonna lead. setting up barriers to fight off temptation before it hits is the only way.

and its SOOOO WORTH IT!!!

Good on you for being brave enough to go against the worlds cheap standards. Your future wife should be honoured!

Answer 6

i do

Answer 7

in todays world there might not be so many people willing to wait. also it depends on the type of person and doesn't alwasy have to be a religious thing

Answer 8

I regret not waiting and in hindsight ( being 20/20 ya know) I wish I soooo would have.

Back in the day of our mothers and grandmothers it was EXPECTED to wait until marriage to have s*x. A woman/girl was mocked and judged if she was not a virgin til marriage. She was labeled for life, literally!  Now days.....society has accepted that pre marital s*x is acceptable. ( and I'm not stating an opinion either way) HOWEVER, notice the girls that wait?  NOW....they are the ones labeled!  They are judged and for what?  Wanting to save herself for one man!!  PLEASE!!!  I think its a rare commodity that should become popular once again!!!!!

No sweetie...there is NOTHING wrong with waiting and having personal self respect!!  I commend you!!!!  :)

Answer 9

aww dats so cute!! u should be strong and dnt do it until ur married!

and yea its proper to wait till marriage.............of course!!! and wen u look for a wife look for someone whos a virgin dis way both of u can experience somethin new together!!! if u do this u wont regret anythin lik most ppl do after they do it!!! why regret wait till the right moment plus why now!? u have a whole life time

Answer 10

s*x is too much fun to wait until you're old, the younger the better