Are these parents unfair????

Question

Ok lets start off with the first born:

She was always the smart one and never got in trouble with the law or school. on occasions she got in trouble at home. (we a blak family so gettin in trouble means gettin wooped). Shes 18 now and still does whatever so yea

Now for me, When i was young i remember always cleaning nd gettin in trouble. Now im 14, all i remember is doing MOST of the chores that all 3 kids are supposed to do, but only I do it, and when i do them I STILL get in trouble for doing it "half-***". Im like at least i do it at all unlike the other two. Ok Imma **** up in school somettimes my grades aren't bad they're just not super hi like my older sister

Now my youngest nd most hatest sister, my mom nded up marrying her dad( we all got different dads)

and she gets treated like an angel. she dosen't have to do any chores, she dosen't get yelled at or wooped, then ont op of everything she dsoen't do anything she is told and gets away with it. If i even made a face that looked like i didn't want to do it, i would get blazed. Also, she's the sister that gets you in trouble even though you didn't do anything. she knows how to make herself cry and ake up sob storeis. then she'll get on your nerves on purpose(like changing the channel to the TV while your watching it) then when you get mad and raise your voice, she goes and tells the mom that u hit her, now you im in trouble and she laughs at me.

Its to the point were i wanna throw her out the 3rd story window nd watch her head explode like a watermelon would. She's 9 by the way.

Now people,, tell me what you think, and remember we're black so dont hit me up with that "ur parents beat you, thats so creul" nd Latley i cant even sit down nd watch tv with out her yelling at me. its crazy, nything i do she just yells at me.

Am i being treated unfairly compared to the other 2.

Answer 1

If you and your older sister get a job she can move out and you can live with her. Then you won't have to deal with your little sister any longer. In the mean time tell your mom that you can't do the work because you have to concentrate for school. Since your little sister is only in grade 3 (I'm guessing since she's 9) she won't have a lot of homework and you can convince your parents she should do it.

Good luck and I hope everything works out for your family.  

Answer 2

well you are the boy they might be trying to tuff you up!!!! i know i feel that i get treated diff then my older brother... i do way more cleaning and get yelld at so much more then him.. but my mother always tells me that  dont kno what she talks 2 my brotehr about when im not ther and she also says he dus do chores  which i think is bullshit..  well thats 2 bad for your parents tho because when you sisters are 45 still getting spoiled by your parents whose fault is that..  

Answer 3

What does being black have to do with beating your kids exactly?  

Answer 4

Your a boy that's why they treat you that way and the fact that your sisters get away with stuff is not right and since you get hit anyways I would beat the h**l out of them to show them your not taking anything from them anymore and that if they don't start acting right you are going to keep doing it until they do Or you can go to your counselor at school and talk to them about what's going on at home because stuff like that causes kids to go bad and that's not something you want to do outside the house cause once you go bad outside the house then your the laws problem and they won't mind handling it.

Answer 5

holy Cow you sure do sound like a teenager, whinging and all. I can barely understand what you have written though. Sure there should be a few vowels in there somewhere

Answer 6

Getting "whooped," all different dads - on the next Jerry Springer...

Answer 7

ell yeah i kno whatchu eman bceause sumtymes mah fam be like dat [ my fam go str8 n!gga on mah@zz if i do sumin!} i gatta blak family 2 maybe because dey find her as an adult{_ya olda sistah} dey assum you should do stuff, and yo lil sistah dont get whooped prolly because dats not ehr child.  maybe you should tell yo momsz str8 up or have ya older sitah 2 tawk 2 ya moms and tell her whats really goin down yo!

Answer 8

Well... you're the boy and even though I'm not black my family is from the south and we grew up with whoopins too - so I know what it's like - so this is what I did when I was your age...

I got a job and got away from the house as much as I could.  I kept myself busy with work and school.  When I was home I just kept a low profile - stayed in my room a lot - but mostly I worked all the time.  

The other reason you might be getting more work than the others is you're the boy - girls do tend to be more pampered and especially the youngest one that your mama married her daddy.  Just play along with it and try to buddy up with your step dad - offer to help him around the house or whatever - go fishing or do something with him to show some interest in his lifestyle.  The more cooperative you are and the more pleasant you appear to him the more he'll let up on you - the more you do it the better you'll feel about each other and your sisters... and ma too!

If all else fails - see if you can go to your mamaw's house to live... grandma's always can use a teenage boy around to help with the lawn work, etc...  She'll make a man out of you without treating you like a boy!  And you'll look mean/lean within no time at all!  She may make you work like a mule... but I bet she feeds you like a king!

Oh yeah... just a word to those who think this kid is abused... trust me... it's not!  I was in his shoes and I was disapplined with "whoopins" too and it didn't do nothin but hurt my pride, made me respect my elders, do as I was told the first time, and never talk back, fear God, etc... His folks are God loving people just like my own were... you call it spankings up here - down there they call it beatin's and whoopins... either way it's no different.  It's a whop on the butt is what it is.

Answer 9

Give the lil 9 year old a back-breaker. Then when she cries and asks why you did it tell her, "You're always gettin' me in trouble for whoopin' ya, so I may as well whoop ya."

Answer 10

wow.  im gonna start by saying that i am an african american mother of 5.  i have been married more than once.  raising children is a very difficult thing.  your mother im sure means well.  she is probably doing the best she can with what she has been equipped with in her own up bringing.  to 'whoop' you is to do what she was shown.  im sure at times she is unfair--as i hear from my children quite often.  i KNOW for a fact that it will be dificult to 'talk' to your mother about how you feel.  but give it a try.  if there is another adult that she wont take offense to, try asking that person to be like a go between or a mediator.  although alot of us look at it as a 'white thing' counseling truely helps.  maybe you all can go.  if not, at the age of 14 you are able to go on your own..with or with out insurance.  alot of time when our children f*** up in school (to use your words) we will question ourselves.  ask what we are doing wrong.  try to keep it together.  remember in the end your mother loves you.  alot that you see her do now you wont be able to appreciate until you are older.  you will be able to see her struggles for yourself.  so to answer your question, she may be unfair in your eyes.  but i bet if you ask your siblings, they would say that they are treated unfairly too.  for now try to look at all that your mother does for you.  does she go to work every day to feed you?  do you have clothes on your back?  is there a roof over your head?  the computer that you use, does she pay for it?  you can try to show her that you appreciate her now by doing your part.  keep your nose clean in school and try to keep your chores done.  this is a 2 way street.  she does for you,   you should do for her also.  in the mean time just try to remember that she loves you and she wants only the best for you and your siblings.   good luck...