Are these thoughts normal??

Question

ok so im straight but i always wanted to see another guy my age naked. i want to see how i compare like if my "size" is normal like if all guys are buff or ripped or if they are hust like me(some muscle but not completely tonned). and if guys have butts. like when i walk around sometimes i see like shirt above it and i want to know if guys are like girls butts. but i dont want to look up pix i want to see in real life. sometimes when i see boy kids i wish i was thin like them when i was little since when i was a kid i was fat and got picked on. everytime i see someone successful like a singer, artist, sports player i day dream about wanting to be them when i grow up but being better even i know it might not happen. sometimes my parents make me so mad that i fell like moving away but than i appreciate that i have parents so much that i dont want to lose them.

are all these thoughts nrmal for a guy my age?? please tell me if u have any of these thoughts as well please!!

Answer 1

like WR said, it's totally normal for a kid your age to be curious. even guys that are already grown up can't help but check out other guys just to see how they compare. however, when comparing you should note that there is great variation in p***s size. there is no normal or average size for a soft/flaccid p***s because they vary enormously. some guys ‘shrink’ a lot more than others when soft. you can NEVER judge how big a guy will be when he is erect from his soft p***s size.

as for wanting to be better than the current famous people, see what you like to do and go for it. you never know until you try. you also need to be persistent and never put yourself down.

good luck with it all. :)

Answer 2

Absolutely normal- I think pretty much every guy (especially those your age) are curious about how they compare to others. It has nothing to do at all with your sexuality, but rather it's simply a way to see how you fit in. And yes, I've had thoughts like that before.