Are they really my friends or just using me?(warning long story)?

Question

i knew them since i was a kid now i am a teen. they are the same age as me we both went to the same school together until i moved to a dif. city i try to see them alot but it never works out we always don't have the same schedule to see each other only once a month we see each other i consider them my best friends they are we have alot of stuff in common and been through alot with eachother. so i they slept over few days ago we had fun but i notice how one of my friend started changing she got really mean calling me and my other friend a hoe ***** etc. i thought it was a joke but i didn't say anything i didn't know it was a joke. so we got to my house and we were going to have dinner my older bro. spent an hour making dinner for us burgers one of my friend ate 2 then the other one friend ate not even 1. i felt bad b/c i don't know if she was hungry or she didn't like it. then we watched a movie and all they wanted to do was go on myspace. so they pretty much left me out. it was sooo boring all they did was look at peoples profile and i don't even know the people b/c i don't go to school w/ them and then they talk about their school and friends and leave me out i don't have any friends here no one but i don't tell them b/c im embarrassed so they spent 3 hours on myspace omg! i was so bored i wanted to do something fun so then my friend the one that didn't eat started talking about the fast food place we should ate at and like i was like what? we have food here already. then my mom spent a whole day making lunch for us the next day so then we woke up and they wanted breakfast and the one who didn't eat alot was like bragging how we should go out to eat. im not paying im just a kid if she wants to she can but we have food already. so we ate breakfast which they made they didn't let me do anything and then it made me feel bad i couldn't cook pancakes but they know how to and i made a crappy pancake so they took over. and then it lunch time and i asked them" are you guys hungry we have spaghetti my mom made to eat"

they replied "no, the breakfast made me full" well i wasn't full b/c i ate the crappy pancake i made and it tasted disgusting they ate all the rest i want to eat lunch but it would be rude to eat in front of them and then i payed for their lunch the other day and today i payed for their ice cream one of them ordered the largest size they had 6 dollars i payed and she ate some like 5 spoons of it and it started melting i was thinking like if you don't finish you can put it in the freezer but no they just waste my money they threw it out. and then spent the whole day on the internet are they really my friends or just using me for money and internet? but we are really close but some things just gets me pissed. like i have a camera and they always take a pictures but im in it too then when i go to the bathroom they delete some of my personal pictures with my family and church and then they take a pic. of themselves.

Answer 1

I think they are not your true friends. you guys grew apart because you saw each other less and less. They have no consideration of your feelings when they"delete some of my personal pictures with my family and church and then they take a pic. of themselves.". I suggest you make new friends that are BETTER in your school.

Answer 2

well i think your being used, but if you really want to figure that out i think you should tell them what's going on. i mean if this ever happened with one of my friends i wouldn't let this go to far, i'd start talking to them right away and tell them why there acting like this. seriously in a way this has happened before to me and i didn't really do anything about it and i got in trouble for a lot of things so i think you should tell them what's going on or just say no if they want to do something at your house that totally leaves you out of it, and its your house btw.

Answer 3

Oh my gosh. I'm so sorry. They ARE using you! Just hang out with somebody else, and if they bother you, then chew them out about all the stuff they've been doing to you.

Answer 4

You grew apart no more no less, stay in touch but get new friends to hang out with.

Answer 5

i think ur friends are wrong .to me they are using u. they come in ur house and waste ur families time of cooking and stuff.all they want to do is go on the computer and go on myspace then go and delete ur family pics and dont even ask. i think they are just so direspectful.then they try to use ur money wen they got their own and if they dont they should bring some money if they no they want to buy something. u guys grew apart . i just tink instead of depending on them as ur friends just try and find some where u live at now ok!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! hope this was some good advise