Are they really my friends??

Question

Ok i haev two girls that are supposed to be my best friends but here is the deal.

1. One of them bosses me around and the other one acts like her puppy

2. I can't really trust them and they gossip abot me a ton

3. I haven't seen them in 3 months and they still havn't called me

4. When we aren't at school and its just us 3 its awesome and they treat me really nice and we get along great

I feel like they are mean to me at school cause i don't always do what they say and they are supposed to be like the queen bees

Should i make new friends or wat??

Answer 1

yes go make new friends. real friends will treat you nicly and with respect anytime anywhere anyplace.  

Answer 2

no if they talk **** about you or treat you differently with other people their not your just afraid to lose their "friendship" don't hang around people like that they will probably never change.

Answer 3

they are not your real friends.  Friends don't gossip about other friends.  i would just make new friends so what if they are queen bees they well not always be queens bees they got to grow up some time so when you go back to school just tell them i am sick of your c**p and walk away and talk to other ppl

Answer 4

I had your same situation! Listen closely, get out of that group and fast! it'll bring you nothing but trouble..

Answer 5

well I think that those girls are abusive an they are just trying to make a fool out of you

you say that they are cool wit you just da three of u?

if they act different in different situations then that's not a good sign

I think u should talk to them an ask y they are like that

but if u say u can't trust them then you just make new best friends

hope I helped

Answer 6

Time for new friends! They act different in front of other people and that's not cool. Friends don't gossip about each other, they are the ones who are supposed to defend you against gossip and rumors.

Answer 7

Yep, you should.

Answer 8

simply....yes!

Dont waste your time on people like this! your meant to enjoy time with friends, go out and make some who you actually have fun with no matter where you are or what your doing!

You'll be alot happier and thank yourself for it!

Treat people how you want to be treated is my moto and anyone who treats me badly in a way i would never consider ever doing, I cut from my life, or make them aquanticences and nothing stronger. I have fantastic friends from this stategy! =))))

Answer 9

Yes, if you can't be yourself then they are not your friends. Tell them to take a hike. Friends like that end up playing tricks on you or end up doing something real mean to you in front of everyone.

Answer 10

okay, so im sorry to say that they sound as if they think they are too good for you. First off, if you can't trust them whats the point. Second, theyre like queen bees? Well it seems as if they act embarrassed about you in a way. I mean they try to be all cool at school when everyones watching, but I guess they actually are really nice. The choice is up to you, but for the way I see it, you shouldnt be treated like that... :(