Are they trying to resist an affair, or looking for one??

Question

What do you make of this: a man in a higher position always stares at a younger, pretty co-worker – at work, and when they’re out for drinks with others.

During conversations one night, he mentions that, unlike one of the other girls, this girl is “a nice, sweet, innocent young lady”. They’re both married, and they can’t keep their eyes off each other all night.

When the guy is about to leave, he goes out of his way to touch the girl’s arm and says “You…. Stay out of trouble…” She replies “Why? Trouble is good sometimes”.

He says that she shouldn’t let the other girl (co-worker) lead her astray, and she tells him: “I’m not as innocent as you think I am…”. He smiles suggestively and says “Don’t say that…”.

What does he mean by that? Is he trying to resist, or telling her that she's too tempting already?

Answer 1

They both sound like outragous flirts!!

The thing is, if you are going to have an affair you generally do it in private! The fact that all this stuff was said in the open may suggest that all they are doing is having fun.

They obviously fancy each other quite a lot judging from all the staring.

Its possible something could happen between them, but thats down to how happy each one is in their marriage.

she probably likes his power and he uses that to his advantage. I recon he is just playing with her emotions and she is enjoying it.

Answer 2

How many accounts do you have??

You really have issues honey.

Answer 3

He's telling her that he's very interested and would love to get to know her on an intimate, non-professional basis.

BAD idea.  You do know that your coworkers will know about the affair.  You'll be the butt of office gossip, and you'll be resented if you get any special treatment at all.  If enough people in the office find out, YOU get fired.  He might get a reprimand, a letter in his file that says he needs to be more careful about interactions with lower-level employees so that no one thinks he behaves inappropriately.  But he won't lose his job.

Back off and stop flirting with him.

Answer 4

It sounds like serious flirting.  Hopefully they can keep it at that.  There is definitely something there on both sides.

Answer 5

There seems to be no resisting there.  They are surely having a affair...

Answer 6

I would say she is too tempting already, if both of them are flirting round each other they haven't considered anything about there partners or there children if they have any. I was told that if you put yourself in there shoes or there partners do this how would they feel if there husband or wife was flirting and almost giving themselves away to someone else. I don't think they would be happy, i think they would be upset, and hurt.

I think he is stupid, and that he shouldn't have even gone there, or even started it