Are u divorce, if so, is it hard to find a partner that your children can get along with?

Question

Are u divorce, if so, is it hard to find a partner that your children can get along with?

Answer 1

My sons get along with my new husband very well. He is a wonderful man.  

Answer 2

I have two points of view on this,  I married a women who had a child from a prior marriage.  I loved the little girl like she was mine, I would have done anything for her,  My wife and I had a child of our own, which of course I love to death.  Now she is divorcing me so I not only loose my wife in this I loose a little girl hands down.  That is really really tough for a partner to come to grips with....So if your partner and the children are having a tough time getting along with each other....cut them a little break, it is tough for a partner to get that close with a child especialy when it can all be gone in an instant. Also I feel your pain of finding a new partner with the children involved.....I am need to start looking but at the same time I am hesitant as I have much more to think about now than I did when I dated before.