Are u saving urself for the wedding night?and if so why? ?

Question

i mean it .couldnt u do it the day u got engaged?why wedding night?

Answer 1

We didn't have any moral or religious reasons to wait until our wedding night, but we did it anyway.  We had saved ourselves until the time of the engagement because we couldn't afford an oops financially.  I got a great job the day before he proposed, but since we'd already waited so long and were able to pleasure each other in other ways, we felt could hold it another year.  There was really no other reason to do so besides the fact that we found it funny and amusing.  We're so liberal that anybody who knows us would be really shocked to learn that we were virgins on our wedding night.  

Answer 2

I didn't save myself for either of my marriages. There are times I wish I had, and there times I am grateful that I didn't. But I think those who do are giving their spouses a very special gift.

good luck. :)  

Answer 3

well no i din't but engagments break off easily. weddings mean a bit more.

to each their own though.

Answer 4

Yes, its my religion.

Answer 5

No...I've been getting it everyway I can....lol Seriously.  

Answer 6

engagements break off all the time.

on the wedding night its something fun to look forward to =D

that way its extra special.

Answer 7

I am saving myself for marriage, and my future husband is wonderful enough that he's willing to wait until I'm ready to take that step into a more physical relationship, whether it's on the wedding night or a few days/weeks later--whenever!

The reason I've saved myself is because that's just what I've always believed is morally right. I think that is one of God's gifts to married couples, and I don't want to take a gift before it's rightfully given to me. Marriage is a big step not to be taken lightly, so you're likely to be surer that you've got the right person for you, too. Engagements aren't as permanent as marriages, and it will mean more to me to be FULLY committed to my husband when I give him this special gift that I've never given anyone else. He will feel special knowing that he's the only one I love so much that I'd marry him and give myself to him completely.

Answer 8

I saved myself for  my husband not for my wedding night but for my husband who just happen to become my husband on my wedding night. I did it not only because of my religion but because I wanted my first time to be the most amazing experience, romantic and passion loving and beautiful. And it actually happened that way. I'm pretty sure it was because I waited until I found the perfect person. He was gentle and loving. It was all about us and showing how much we love each other. It sounds cheesey but it's the truth.......I hope that anwers your question.