Are u sick of the feminists who are saying that spitzers wife is a doormat if she doesnt leave him when?

Question

actuality shouldnt be none of thier business..i can see being mad about the N.Y. money being used but the personal aspect of it is no ones business..Has no one done something that needed to be forgiven? Do u think it is a better example to her children to hate the man or to walk thru the fire and forgive? forgiveness does not mean not to punish

Answer 1

no she should leave the loser, why risk getting AIDS if your husband is having s*x with prostitutes

Answer 2

agreed...and what do these same people say about hillary clinton???

Answer 3

You're right, it's "none of our business."  But it's been made our business to some extent.  

Of course we can't make her decisions for her, and we don't know her reasons.

I have to believe that she has known for years that he is unscrupulous, if not that he is unfaithful.  Perhaps she is unscrupulous also; I don't know.

Answer 4

I think you need to get definitions right. There is no need to be a feminist to have some self respect. The thought of what he got up to, where he put his privates and then wants to sleep with her. Who knows what he caught?

Answer 5

Letterman was bad mouthing her with his jokes! I don't think that was right! The only thing I believe she did wrong was to continue to support the idiot! I am sure she'll get even when her jewish attorneys take everything away from him and she marries a republican next!

Answer 6

Not at all, she really should leave him. I mean who knows what kind of STD's he has. I was reading he's not a fan of "safe s*x"...I wouldn't ever trust him again and take half of everything he has..

Answer 7

Sometimes it's better to leave a marraige than to remain in it and "punish", as you suggest.  How healthy is THAT for the children?

Also, I think it's a bit different when you discover your husband has cheated...  Or you discover that he has been cheating for eight years.

Whether it's people's business or not, it's out there in the media.  People are going to have opinions, feminist or not.

My personal opinion, and I'm not a feminist, is that it isn't that hard to forgive people their mistakes.  Even when their "mistakes", harmed you personally.  It may however be difficult to have to look at them everyday and live with them.

Also, something occurring consistently over an eight year period, hardly qualifies as a mistake.  More like a plan.

Answer 8

I am sick of feminists and their judgemental ways peirod!

Everything is not always black and white. You can't live anyone elses life, just your own. I dont care if you are a public figure or not. As a matter of fact I dont care if all if all people in power decide to sleep around. Its none of my business...as long as they are good at their job who cares!

Answer 9

I never even knew of the feminists reaction to Spitzer but yeah i would agree she should leave him, i guess she's trying to pull a "Hilary Clinton"

Answer 10

Whether or not Spitzer's wife stays with him is up to her.  She has to figure out what is best for her and her girls.  This is not the same as Bill Clinton cheating on Hilary.  There is a big difference between having an affair and seeing a prostitute.  I don't think any of us have the right to judge this woman.

Instead, place the blame on the husband who thinks it is okay to sleep with a prostitute and condemn/prosecute those who do the same.  Our hearts and prayers should be for the victims of this --- the children and the wife.

Answer 11

It's really up to them and how much they love each other. Its it's true love, she'll stick by his side if not, she'll forget him.

Answer 12

Who is spitzers????

Reminder.....many of us here are not part of Imperialist Amerika and have no idea who or what you're talking about.

Answer 13

I agree with you.

But that's why they are feminists. because they are irrational people.

Answer 14

Well he did humiliate her in front of the entire country. And it IS everyone's business because he is a public figure and so is she. I think everyone is on her side though, everyone feels for her and I think she should leave him too or get help like now. She shouldnt hate him or talk badly about him in front of her kids, but it would be a bad example if she did nothing about it! You  can't teach your kids to let people get away with something that devastating.

Answer 15

I agree but i also feel that she is probably in this marriage for the power as well. Apparently, she wanted him to remain in office. Give me a break! There are ALWAYS alterior motives and i think that his wife has them. You can't tell me she hasn't dealt with at LEAST his infidelity in the past. She's probably over him...they probably never have s*x, like many couples. They are probably only together for image and children. God, that isn't unlike many people reading this right now. (Unlike many people reading this as well...no offense) At any rate, you are totally right....it's personal and NO ONE but the two people involved know what their relationship is about. They are probably good friends and even better business partners. She's probably more angry about him getting bagged...in front of the public! It makes her (i'm assuming SHE thinks...i do not) look like a doormat and it has ruined their happy family image. It's got to be hard on her kids. My heart goes out to them. I hear that he is a real prick...very disliked. Funny how Karma can bite you in the ***. I love your question and statement. Thanks!

Answer 16

All them hypocrites have been cheated on and stayed before.

Answer 17

You can look at it in 2 ways. Since it is on national TV i think its better she stands by him. I would think off TV she is sleeping in a nice hotel or with someone else. She is brave to do that, i respect her for her even showing her face. He is the one that looks bad not her.

Answer 18

No cause I think she is a doormat if she says with him.  I also think for her children she should set the example of never letting any man walk all over you father or not.

I think mistakes can be forgiven.  If it was that he felt guilty about this and told her it was a one time thing and he was very sorry...then yes walk through that fire HOWEVER when you did it numerous times and the only reason you stop is because you got caught...s***w him!