Are vain women also very demanding on potential boyfriends?

Question

You know the type, the women who are obsessed with their looks: blindingly white teeth; year long tan; always has perfect nails; never gains weight; every strand of hair is always perfectly in place; loves designer bags etc. etc.

I have dated those types since this city (London) is full of such women and find that they are all very high maintenance and expect guys to splash money on them. Am I wrong to think ALL women obsessed with their looks are like that?

Answer 1

I find that beautiful women actually never think they look good enough. The ones that are mildly attractive think they are the most beautiful in the world. The truly beautiful women often feel unattractive, if you can imagine that. They are still high maintenance though. The more beautiful the woman, usually the less beautiful she thinks she is. Odd, but true.

Answer 2

I hate women that are like that.  They never appear intimate, affectionate, or loving.  That is, unless it is over some diamonds.

You should experience different kinds of people.

Answer 3

i wouldn't call myself vain or obsessive, because i love sports and stuff like that too, but i definitely try to look my best. like i collect designer bags, but that's my thing.  i would neither expect, nor want anyone else to throw money into something like that. i feel uncomfortable when guys try to pay for me at movies. give and take should be balanced between both people, and that totally throws things out of balance.

Answer 4

im not that kind .....though i take care of my look, i dont need a guy to splash me money, i never look for somebody who can do that cuz i like to earn everything on my own.....

Answer 5

Not ALL women are like that, but the majority who put THAT MUCH importance on looks are.

They don't know how to handle money, or communicate about interesting things, because they are too busy absorbing themselves with fashion, accessories, tabloids, cell phones and trends.  To me, this is a waste of time, because what the h**l are you two going to DO together??  SURELY your interests are not similar!  I stear away from guys who do too much primping and preening.  I have other things to worry about and to spend my time on.  I look for someone who I can have a conversation with, and who I can enjoy spending time with.  Since I like to go to pubs and watch baseball, I DON'T try to date guys who spend 30 minutes doing their hair- they obviously don't put a cap on, probably aren't baseball fans, therefor we probably don't have a lot in common!  

I reccomend going to your typical haunts.  I used to live in London, and yes, there are a lot of trendy women in the TRENDY places!  It's a big city, and a cultural mecca!  If you want to meet womeon more like you, go do the stuff YOU would like.   When I was there, and looking for guys to date, I just went to a few local pubs and watched sports and played pub quizzes and all that.  I found LOTS of GREAT people who I really enjoyed spending my time with.  

Go you YOUR environment and find women who exist there too, best way!  

Answer 6

Just got out of a relation ship dealing with that bs

Answer 7

omg I'm so happy you didn't say blonde. People always stereotype them it's getting kinda sad. But to answer your question, no definitely not! Find a girl who loves you for you, and leave those girls to the old billionare wrinkled up men.

Answer 8

I've never met a girl like that who didn't want a rich guy.

Answer 9

Not all women are like that, open your eyes and opportunities will as well...