Are we drawn to what we lack?

Question

Like if you don't have much or any fire in your chart will you be drawn to fire signs or if you have an equal amount of air, water and fire but no earth would you be drawn to earth?

Are we drawn to what we lack?

What's your venus, mars and sun signs?

Answer 1

Venus - Aquarius

Mars - Sagittarius

Sun - Sagittarius

the rest of my chart is pretty equalled out among the elements.....maybe that's why I tend to just be attracted to everyone - lol - all different types, signs, elements, etc........lol....I am usually attracted to strength (both mentally and physically as well as soul), intelligence, and distinct unique qualities....

Answer 2

in some ways yes, i gravitate (not that there's much gravity here) toward earth

Answer 3

Yes, that's why opposites attract. Too opposites can balance and complement one another.

Answer 4

Venus and Sun are in Virgo

Mars is in Libra

I only have 2 water placements in my chart, and yet,

I love people born into that element. Sweet, caring and protective. What else does someone need? They're just naturally loving people. That really is all I can say about them.

Water Suns, Water Moons, and Water Risings. All of them are equally awesome.

Saturn in Pisces

Pluto in Pisces.

I think my Scorpio in the eleventh house (house of friendship), makes me drawn to loyal, caring people.

Answer 5

We learn to question our motives. In that exercise, we make a choice: do we wish to grow, or do we wish to exploit that which keeps us safe? To utilize metaphysics as a point of argument is wholly distractive to the honest intent of your question. The human heart knows no such boundaries and to suggest it does limits the scope of what we can attain. I prefer a limitless way to express who I am.

Answer 6

sorry but this old boy is a cancer .....shall always be near water....lots of water...lol

Answer 7

yes usually..

will come back later

edit : have eaten stg which does not agree with me tonight...maybe will be my two cents tomorrow if the q is still open...but you got good answers !

Answer 8

Yes, I agree. I actually asked a question similar to this a while ago. I think that we often look to people that have qualities we lack. I do believe that we can gain those qualities if we work hard for them, and sometimes being with certain people can help teach us to gain those qualities for ourselves. I know that I have changed greatly from being around certain people, and have learned to carry myself and think in different ways. Of course, some people also flock to people as a crutch for what they lack, but I see the importance of taking their skills and adding them to your artillery. I think we do well from being with those that are different, and it teaches us to open up our minds.

Sun: Libra

Mars: Libra

Venus: Sagittarius